JayMadison

Hello everybody. I am a dominant staight male looking for his ideal submissive. I am very attractive, confident, and financially stable. I am not overweight or balding and I don't live in my parents basement, though I did when I was 16. I am not secretly married or otherwise entangled and I don't want to hear from any of you who are. I am not looking for casual encounters. I am not exactly prudish either. I like mischief as much or more than anyone else but I don't sleep around.

After years of dating and relationships I have come to the conclusion that I simply have no interest in a vanilla anymore. There isn't anything wrong with it but it isn't for me. I need that extra intensity that comes from a Dom/sub relationship. I'm not scary or dangerous but your average vanilla girl tends to get a bit skittish when you want to spank her. So I have been left with two options. I can keep meeting "regular" girls and delicately try to find if they have submissive tendencies or I can search here and find women with submissive tendencies whom I haven't met. Ah yet another catch 22. Such is life.


My ideal sub would be between 21 and 45 but I don't rule anyone out based on age. You had better be really together if you are young and really energetic and playful if you're older. YOU MUST BE SINGLE. I don't get really hung up on looks but I don't like girls who are out of shape. No one who weighs more than me for sure. Call me old-fashioned but I never date a girl I can't carry over my shoulder. I am not too concerned about your level of experience in the "lifestyle" because I will train you to be the proper sub for me. That isn't to say that I don't allow a girl her opinions or her say but you will defer to me in the end. I want you to be intelligent and if you make me laugh you are way ahead of the competition.

I believe in taking things slow and will not rush you into anything. I want to talk to you first. I am tired of wasting my time on relationships that are doomed from ther start so I want an honest discourse from the proverbial get-go. So drop me a line, say hi, let's pick each other's brains a bit. I know my girl is out there somewhere and I sure hope it is you.