jaydenne

I recently saw these words on a very sensible profile.

"I've just about had it with profiles stating that the owner has 'no limits'.  Then there are the slave profiles stating 'no limits' as well.  Everyone has limits.  If someone didn't have limits, they would most likely be dead, comatose or on the side of a milk carton.  Would you let someone murder you?  No?  Then that is a limit.  How about female circumcision?  Still no?  Then guess what.  Limit.  How about drinking urine, eating feces, being fucked by Rover.  No?  Those are limits.  It boggles the mind how many profiles on here have that not only in the description, but highlighted.  Perhaps if people put that in there, they might make themselves more attractive to a potential mate.  Honestly, it makes you sound more like spam to me...if not a total idiot."

There are men on here, a ton of them, who will try to convince girls that "true slaves don't have limits", or that real surrender means no limits.  There are a small few who, like the writer above, don't want anything to do with a girl who buys it.  People with their heads together and a functional value system don't expect other human beings to give permission for them to do anything in the world they want to to them - things that would cause harm, that would scar, that would cause damage.  Women with their shit together are not so desperate for a man that they will do anything at all - eat shit, be gang-raped, or have their arm cut off - to get one.  Those words came from a man.  Thank goodness there are a small number on here who aren't so insecure and morally messed up that they tout that shit.  Anyone can dominate a feeble-minded, weak person.  I find those men pathetic.  Give me that strong man who finds the sweetest relationships come from their having to outthink, outwit and outlast a truly strong individual.  That takes a real man.  :)

This profile is not designed to get more viewers or messages.  I would think it's obvious that it's the contrary.  Those who are real and sincere get it.  The profile is designed to screen, and it does that well.  The kind of people I don't want to hear from don't message (or message hateful shit that's easily ignored).  The kind of man I'm interested in gets it.  

There might be something wrong with you if you have more than one profile, for the purpose of emailing people who've blocked you when you show yourself for the douchebag you are.

There might also be a problem if you're still emailing me weeks after being blocked, to tell me how stupid and fake I am, and how having an erotic photo makes me some kind of a loser...hey, if you're stupid enough not to understand that it represents what BDSM means to me, and all you can see is a hot tied up naked chick and think I'm "trying to get attention"...well, does my profile seem like I'm trying to get attention?  I could give a flying fuck what anyone thinks, it's designed to repel the wrong men, not to "get attention".  If I wanted to "get attention" I'm pretty sure there are more effective ways than putting an artistic erotic photo on my profile and being up front that I'm picky and have standards.

I don't have a problem meeting men and have plenty of opportunity for sex.  I'm on here because it's a vehicle for connecting with the right kind of men.  It astounds me how threatened some men are by an intelligent, empowered submissive woman.  So threatened they do the ole insult and run, email telling me I'm stupid and then block.  Guess what guy - I really don't give a shit what you think, cuz you're not someone I'd be interested in, and I frankly don't care if 95% of the men on here think I'm stupid or fake...in fact, I hope they do.  News flash - it's not hard for a smart, together, attractive woman to meet men or get laid.  If it were I might try to be easy on the cynicism.  I'm not looking for any guy who calls himself a Dom (then acts like an angry juvenile).  The ones who get it, get it.  If you don't...there are plenty of other profiles here of women who I'm sure don't care if you're a douchebag or not.  I do, so I will happily continue to repel the douchebags of CM, because it's worth it when that rare gem comes along who gets it.

It doesn't even make sense...that I'm trying to "gain an advantage".  If all that pic is to you is a hard-on...you're exactly that guy I'd never go out with.

And as stupid as you keep saying I am, and trying to "get attention", you're the one that's engaging in creepy obsessive behaviour, and I'm the one telling you to move on to the next girl...I'm not lowering my standards for you.

LOL

"I'm taking you Put it in your profile Under Total Control To Master Hitesh DO IT"

Good one.  :P

1 - yes, I did have a profile on here before.

2 - putting an artistic erotic photo that depicts D/s on my profile, with no attempt to deceive anyone that it's me, is not having a "fake profile pic".  I am an identifiable person in my community and protect my privacy.

3 - not putting my town on my profile does not prove that I'm a fake and just "here to play games".  I'll share with people who may be a match, nobody else needs to know.  I am an identifiable person in my community and protect my privacy.

4 - yes, I'm "real"; I haven't dated vanilla in 10 years, and most of the men I've dated in that time I've met online.  I do know what I want and more importantly what I don't want, and don't play games.  It's as much consideration for the person messaging me as it is anything else, to be up front if we're not a match.  Most aren't.  I'm not looking to settle nor will I lead someone on or play games just to boost my own ego or get sex, if I know we're not a match.

5 - the same blend of low class HNGs, jackasses, antisocial/bitter men, and classy, genuine, respectful people exists on the site as it did when I was here before.  I'd forgotten what a crazy welcome to expect.  Thanks to those who've sent pleasant messages, to the rest, thanks for the entertainment.  And the reminder of how much I like having good mental health with no personality disorders or anger management problems.  :)

If you have no profile or a scant profile with no information, I will only respond if there's information in your message.  Don't expect a response to "hi how r u" or "wanna chat?" or a form email.  Sorry, but if I can take the time to put something together about what I'm looking for I don't see why you can't, if you want to connect.