JasminDevil

Update 7/7/2011: I'm still on break. I'm not actively seeking out anything at this time.

I always read everything that gets sent, but don't expect me to correspond unless you are a pre-existing friend. Of course it never hurts to try...perhaps you'll peak my interest ;)

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If you are not extremely attentive, dedicated, motivated to please, detail oriented, patient and reliable do not contact me as you will not be a good match for my personality. Due to some of my prior experiences, I’ve put together a list of basic criteria you should meet in order to be considered:

you are not married or otherwise involved in a committed or ongoing relationship (including online)

you are honest and dependable

you are drug and disease free

you are very service oriented

you are a fun and interesting companion

you are reasonably local (i.e. you live in VA, MD, or DC)

you are a US citizen

you are looking for r/t, not a phone or cyber situation, and desire a ltr

you are not excessively involved in gaming or virtual worlds

you are neither psychotic nor a complete flake

you are either gainfully employed, comfortably retired, or independently wealthy

you have (or have immediate access to) transportation other than public- I do not live near a metro

you do not have issues with being around a cat

you do not have issues with being around a practicing Christian (non-pushy variety)

you do not have issues with being around a Christian cat- kidding…the cat is a complete heathen ;)

you know the difference between the words dominate and dominant and are able to use them correctly in a sentence

you are able to write me a coherent email (and/or have a detailed profile) that explains why I might wish to consider you

If you do not meet this basic criteria but write to me anyway, I will probably not have the time or inclination to respond to your inquiry.

Now that that’s out of the way, a little about myself and what I’m seeking...

I am a naturally dominant woman who is ultimately seeking a long-term partner. A relationship that includes an underlying D/s dynamic but will appear vanilla to the outside world. I'm intelligent, fun loving, happy, affectionate, and nurturing- but also have high expectations and standards. I'm possessive, direct, and have a deviant (and in certain situations, sadistic) streak, and it pleases me to be taken care of, pampered, served, entertained, and generally treated like royalty. I respond best to proactive men who pay careful attention to my wants and needs and try hard to please me and make me happy.

I'm seeking a partner who fully appreciates my dominant and deviant tendencies. He should be chivalrous, masculine, competent, and protective in public...and give himself as my willing servant in private.

My ideal match is single, available, intelligent, established, motivated, generous, self sufficient, mature, and knows how to treat a lady properly. He will also be quick witted and fun, and have a good heart. While he will respectfully defer to my wishes and judgment and I'll have the final word (or veto power) in all decisions, he needn't always agree with me and will have his own opinions, thoughts, and sense of humor. I want someone who brings their own personality, talents, and strengths to the table- someone I can be proud to call my own. I've found that this usually translates to a man at least in his late 30s or early to mid 40s, but this is not set in stone.

Other things you should know…

I may also consider an ongoing houseboy/maid/slave/personal attendant/pet/keyholder (or some combination thereof) type of arrangement with the right person. Please let me know in your initial correspondence if this is specifically what you wish to be considered for.

I'm not a casual person so don't expect me to rush into intimacy. I require a foundation of trust and familiarity before raising the intensity level...progress in this department will, of course, be at my discretion and pace.

My interest list is neither comprehensive nor inflexible and will always be dependent upon both the nature and depth of any given relationship.

I am active in the local scene although I’m discreet about it, and I don’t expect this to change. You shouldn’t either, although I don’t require that my partner be involved if it’s an issue for them.