JarlTassak

Male Dominant, 39, Dearborn, Michigan

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I am not going to name any names, but for the last couple of days, I have been critiqued by one here, who refuses to believe that at thirty years of age, I have no right to call Myself a Master, even though the title comes from O/others I know and have known, and not from My own choosing. "She" says "she" has spoken to so-called "real" Masters, and they all say that it takes many years to become a Master... Well, I have been exploring in the lifestyle since before I was sixteen, and find much of her arguements to be laughable... As such, her mails to Me have been being routed to My bulk mail folder. Using the same arguements she uses on Me, I find it very funny, that she wants to find a Mistress between 21 and 30, and is looking for a drop dead gourgeous woman, who is well versed in the lifestyle... Even at 21 how is the Mistress to be well versed in the lifestyle, if at 30 a Master is not, when He has been active in the M/s world for 14 plus years? This girl also makes a point to point out to me, that she wants a Mistress who can grow with her and learn at the same time. If such is the case, then why look for one who is well versed?? Also, if the Mistress is that young and is to grow with the slave, what about the experience it takes to know what is safe, and what is not?? How to handle different situations that may arise in the course of play, scene, or even day to day life? I must pity this girl, as what she seeks is pure fantasy, and no where near reality... She will spend all of her life seeking a fantasy image, while the real world passes her by. The image of a drop dead gorgeous female Dominant for every sub or slave seeking such is strictly a fantasy. If such existed, especailly between 21, and 30, every straight male, and lesbian or bi female slave and sub would be paired up with such by now, and would not be here searching for such. On a closing note, I will add this little side note, aside from the fact that I added this girl to My favorite's list originally, as I wanted to observe the postings and such she made, to see if she was one I would consider persuing a strictly friends only relationship with, what is this "lady" doing sending Me a note trying to incite Me or disprove who and what I am, when she is seeking only Dominant females? I do not wish to be rude but it seems that paired with her lack of writing skills, she seeks so hard to validate herself, including the futility of her search by attacking the Masters and male Dominants on this site, making all manner of claims, and seeing only her arguements as the sole right and true statement. I doubt she will have many friends here as time passes...? Most will not want to be around one who is so self centered...? Hence is why I don't often post here. I prefer to observe, and look for the right ones, watching, and following up with a very select few who I feel have the greatest potential over time to build a serious relationship with a long term basis, not a one night stand. This one who chose to attack Me basis her statements on what little she reads from My profile, mainly My age, and her obvious distaste for males. If you want to make such comments about Me, I will pose this to you...? Take the time to really get to know Me...? Beyond what is in My profile, as what little is there is just a meager glimpse regarding who I really am...? The only way you will ever know the real Me, and whether is building a relationship with Me is worth the time and effort or not, is to actually come speak with Me...

Time to answer a few more questions for people; 1> Yes, I am still looking. 2> No, I do not expect sex or such on a first meeting. If things are discussed and agreed to before hand, that is one thing, but it is not something I expect right off the bat. 3> Yes, I do play safely when it comes sex, only Mine have the right to even consider unprotected sex with Me. 4> No, I will not consider a one night meeting strictly for sex. If I am only going to meet you for one night, sex is not even an option, as I prefer to have and maintain a relationship with those I have sexual relationships with. 5> No, I do not mind partners who are married, even if they must be discreet, but I prefer that thier partner / significant other / husband / wife / etc be made aware of the situation, in many cases, I do prefer to actually meet them, if the relationship becomes serious along the lines of M/s... 6> I do prefer first meets to be in a fairly public place, such as a resturant, truck stop, etc... It is rare for me to meet one in private the first time, actually very rare, but it has happened. As for rest areas, such as those along the road side, your chances are pretty much nil, unless I know you already fairly well, from speaking with you at length, both on and offline, including at least one other face to face meeting. 7> Yes, I am working on a full website, complete with training protocols, etc so that prospective slaves can see what they are getting themselves into. 8> Yes, I do grow weary of the game players that seem to be everywhere I go these days. 9> I severly dislike those who simply delete mail just becuase you are male, etc... It is my opinion that such a callus attitude drastically limits the slave, or Master's for that matter, chances to grow and become part of the community at large. While I can understand it from the standpoint of a gay male, or lesbian female recieving email from someone of the opposite sex, or someone that does not match thier desires listed in their respective profiles, but at times it is those that have the most to say in a positive sense, much needed compliments, etc... But alas, it seems that a few HNGs (Horny Net Geeks), and trolls have spoiled such.

As a courtesy to some, I have uploaded a few pics. The one of Me is fairly old, ie roughly 2 to 3 years. As soon as I have a better pic of me now, I will update it. The other two are of interesting toys / tools that I tend to keep on hand, even when I am out on the road in the truck.

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