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janeofalltrades

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Sorry this is currently under construction as I figure out how to word and polish and what all to say. Here are a few rough points to note that I feel are most important:
  • I have recently come to realize the my strongest aspect of my kink is my identification as a kitty.
  • I identify as a sensual bottom. There are many reasons for this the main points being I have a very low interest and tolerance for pain, I'm very tactile, and though topping isn't out of the question I do not have a very wide skill set nor do I find it easy to get into the necessary head space.
  • I am sapiosexual. To develop any interest in playing with and or fucking you I have to be able to connect with you mentally in some way.
  • Speaking of sex and play, outside of scenes built to allow me to try a new experiences and learn if it is an area I want to develop in I have a hard time separating the two. Yes I can play without a sexual component but if we have negotiated for that you can bet your sweet ass I have someone on standby to help dissipate the immense sexual tension. Truth be told I would rather not separate the two, I would much prefer you making me cum at some point be part of our scene.
  • I have very fluid boundaries regarding love, friendship, intimacy and sex. It is one of the reason I am happy to have found polyamory it allows me the freedom to structure (or perhaps have a lack of structure in) my relationships in such a way that allows for whatever may happen organically.
  • I briefly touched on it but it defiantly needs its own bullet point I'mVERY tactile. This leads to me wanting to be very physically affectionate and combine that with the previous bullet and well let’s just say many of my friends, lovers etc. can attest to the fact I love nothing better than to touch and caress and possibly kiss and lick one another for hours. For me this can be both sexual and non-sexual and really the only difference is if we include the genitals.
Okay that is all I can think of for now as far as important points go and since I'm still learning and growing and changing and evolving who knows what this will look like down the road. Given the fact the above information is mostly pertinent for potential play partners and lovers I guess I should give some more general info about who I am and what I like for those just looking to befriend me and well those who paid attention to the above and realize the way to get in my pants or get me on a cross is to build a friendship first.
  • I hold a BA in Theater Arts. Though I have yet to find a way to get paid to do what I love, I still love it and you can't keep me away from it. I usually get my fix helping my friends make costumes, build props and do their make up for various types of events.
  • I enjoy being outdoors and enjoy many activities out their including hiking, camping, boating, fishing, and swimming.
  • I'm a geek. I'm very eclectic in my nerdiness, so like in many other areas of my life instead of being super fan girl over a few things I have a casual interest in most things geeky
  • I'm a voracious reader when life allows it or if I’m not in one of my lulls. To give you an idea of the type of stuff I read some of my favorites are the works of Robert Heinlein, the works of Laurel K Hamilton, the Hannibal Lecter series (this one is both the books and any of the films based on them), The Dresden Files series, the works of Douglas Addams, the Chronicles of Narnia series, the Harry Potter series, and well this list could get obnoxious if I keep going.
  • I really enjoy being social and getting to talk to people. At parties and events you will see me bouncing between and talking with just about everyone and my only problem is I can't be everywhere at once. As much as I enjoy the mass socialization I cherish even more the ability to get together and have a drink with or share a meal with someone individually or perhaps a small intimate group and really get to know one another.
Okay that does it for that section for now. Now for the "rules" for lack of a better term:
  • Don't be offended if I do not accept your friend request. I only friend those I have met in person. (If distance or some other thing prevents meeting I do very rarely friend someone after extensive email correspondence.)
  • Don't hesitate to email me I love chatting with people, but note if you say nothing of substance (i.e. you just say "hi" and nothing else, or you message is just some variant of "I would love to fuck you") don't expect a reply or well if you have been particularly creative in your disrespect and the mood strikes me don't be surprised at my verbal evisceration. Also note that though I can overlook spelling and grammatical mistakes to a degree, I respond very poorly to purposeful violation of the English language (i.e. text speak, the use of heavy slang etc.). I tend to view it as a sign that you do not possess the mental faculties necessary to hold my interest.
  • Do not think because you identify as Dom, Master whatever other big letter variant and that I identify as a submissive and a bottom that you can act like you have any fucking say or power over me. I know a smart ass, mouthy, strong willed (and whatever other positive variants of pain in the ass you can come up with) submissive can be seen as disrespectful and upset your Domly sensibilities but guess what if all you see when you see a fiery spirit is a challenge to break someone rather than a powerful tool to possess I'm not going to be your cup of tea and you might as well keep walking because trying to take power by force is a huge turn off and I have no problem putting you in your place.
  • I have a primary partner, and a job and a bio family and a chosen family and all kinds of other shit in my life, so at this time I feel I do not have the time or emotionally energy to invest in anything beyond a very casual relationship with any potential play partners, lovers, or what have you. Not that I don't necessarily want it I just honestly can't give you more than that at this point in my life
  • Oh and last but not least given the time to plot my words I can be beautifully articulate but more often on the fly or as I become more passionate about the subject I cuss like a sailor. On occasion I can drink like a fish. I have no sense of delicate grace and, well, all these come together to form what I like to jokingly call one classy broad. In all seriousness I am not very femme leaning so if you want a girl to be this beautiful example of femininity personified once again I'm not your girl. I'm totally one of the guys and I wouldn't change it for the world.
I think that about wraps it up like I said at the beginning I find myself in a state of flux and so I'm having to relearn aspects of myself and discovering aspects I couldn't identify so this will be changing as time goes by. I'm also still learning to actually communicate what it is that is going on with me, and trying to break my very bad habit of just saying "I don't know" versus taking the time to reflect and figure it out, then figure out how to express it.
(Revised 11/4/13) also I never really use this site so feel free to find my on as I check that way more often

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3/17/2010 9:40:07 PM
ok fuck the age limit cuz since i have put it up i have had many i have enjoyed talking to say they didn't want to cuz of it i only put it up cuz i was sick of the fact i was getting emails from people older than my parents sorry not looking for a daddy or mommy

1/18/2010 7:32:05 PM
i'm starting to think i should have never bothered to wast they time to fill out a profile since so few who contact me actually read the damn thing! i also need to state if your over 35 i'm probably not interested, and i'm not looking for a collar or anything just friends and possibly those friends might turn into play partners but i'm not actively seeking anything at the time just enjoying chatting with new people.

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desiringkajira
 
 Age: 48
 Chester, United Kingdom