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About JamesLynn2005
After an hour and a half long play session a couple of nights ago, it has been pointed out to Me (Lynn) that James feels more like a Dom than a switch, and after discussion We have agreed that from now on He will be identifying as a Dominant. As for My role, part of what We concluded was that I am still a switch. With James I am mostly submissive, but with other submissives, I tend to change to top/Domme mode. So hence the change in what We are looking for - We are now looking for a female submissive/slave, not a switch. Not that We don't like switches - it would just be a friendship without the possibility of more. Our ideal submissive/slave would be open to trying new things (within certain pre-set limits), be open to a deep friendship and the possibility of falling in love, someone who finds great joy and satisfaction in serving one or both of Us, is truly bi-sexual, is a cat person, and has compassion. What We plan to bring to the relationship include a deep love for the lifestyle and respect for not only the position Our submissive/slave would inhabit in Our lives, but also for the submissive herself. We enjoy experimenting with new methods and ways of doing things, and We enjoy making friends that We can be open and honest with. James' Dom style is one where the comfort and trust of His female is first in His mind and His wants come second. He takes His role as Master very seriously, yet at the same time is able to have a great deal of fun with it. To James communication is key - without it He will not play with that person. I (Lynn) tend to like to top more than to play the Domme - I get it in my bones every once in a while to want to inflict delightful pain on someone. I don't tend to do control stuff often (maybe for the simple reason that I have not had very much practice) but with the right person anything is possible. When I do control in a D/s relationship I tend toward choosing clothing and food, orgasm denial, servant chores, and knife play. Because of Our high level of respect for any submissive that would be playing with Us, neither one of Us do objectification play. We are not looking for 24/7 – We have a child who lives with us on a regular calendar that we do not feel comfortable exposing to this lifestyle yet. One other requirement for any female who plays with Us is that she be a woman of independent needs. Both of Us are on fixed income that would not be able to handle supporting a third person. NO LIES, NO DRAMA, NO DRUGS! We are not looking for a male (of any type). Please see O/our journal for more details.
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A little on our fantasies; James has a fantasy about "ordering" His two female submisives to please eachother while He looks on. He has a thing about watching two girls kiss. My (Lynn's) fantasy is a little different; I want to be able to have a little more head control and be able to say "W/we are going on a date - I want you to wear (a certain item that is in the subs closet) and you will be eating this (pre-chosen by Me) meal. The person that We are looking for may also have fantasies of their own that W/we can discuss and see which one's are feasable to have come true. In fact we encourage prospective play mates to come to us with fantasies in mind. Now please do not assume that since I have outlined fantasies involving a sumissive that switches need not apply - that is most certainly not so. Switches are just as welcome as sumissives (and yes We realize that switches have different needs than submissives in most cases - just be honest and open with Us about those needs and we will do all we can to fulfill them).
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So the search begins; will we find someone who meshes well with our casual style?? (And no, we do not do 'casual sex' for anyone.)? We are looking for someone who is real, true to life, not just in the vanilla venue but also in BDSM.? Not that fantasies are bad - there is just a place for them.? We practice Safe, Sane and Consentual BDSM - We believe (strongly) in negotiation, especially in the beginning stages of the scene relationship.? If you are interested in sincere friendship, and meaningfull sex, and are open to the possibility of falling in love, then send us a note.? More later . . .?
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