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Dominant Couple, 41
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Male Submissive, 42, Washington, DC, Washington D.C.
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About jalanjalan
I'd like to get to know more people who are kinky, though I'm not much for going to events.
I don't respond well to being treated like a prop in someone's fantasy rather than as a person. I'm not likely to respond to messages in which I've already been cast in the role as someone's top or dominant or owner (or submissive!).
I have tried partnerships with folks who were poor communicators, and it really didn't work for me, even when my partner was really great and someone I care about. So I look for people who can explain themselves clearly, even just for play. For me, that's just an essential part of the chemistry that makes my kink possible.
I love exploring with people, hearing about their stories, finding their kinky buttons and pushing them. I like being in charge, and I'm good at it.
I'm happily married to my owned and collared pet and husband. We're somewhere between open and poly, but we're not looking for any unicorns. Both friendship and chemistry are necessary for me to be open to play partnerships and other relationships.
I believe firmly and vocally that consent is only consent if it is enthusiastic and not coerced. I'm pretty badass at negotiation, though I can be slow to enter a new relationship. I shy away from anyone who can't respect my boundaries or doesn't expect me to respect theirs.
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