I have an adorable female friend that I always fantazise about... she is a foot shorter than me (5'4) she's very attractive (picture an 8-9 out of 10) also cute, very goofy, bubbly and all around a fun person to hang out with... she is the type that is so friendly that everyone wants to be her friend... everyone wants to be nice to her, everyone surrounds her, and she knows how to handle it, but she is NOT an attention whore... she is the type that gives you enough attention and you want more, but then at a party or something she walks away a lot because other people want her attention too... she is the type that you get just the right amount of attention from, and when she is gone, you are always wondering where she is. or when you'll see her again. When someone starts dating her, people are going to want to know: who is she dating? who did she pick? she's sort of like a local celebrity... because her interpersonal communications skills are amazing.
On top of it all, she isnt even arrogant... she is so humble and modest, she doesnt like to talk about herself, only wants to learn about others (I think that adds to why everyone loves her too) because she makes everyone feel special or important. It's almost hard to catch her attention.. she lives in the moment, very sponteneous, but if you ever get the chance to sit her down and REALLY talk to her, you'll find that she is really intelligent as well!
Anyway, you can see why this type of girl is attractive, right?
Recently, we've become better friends... she is so fun to be around, but the problem is that she makes me feel less dom... she is the only girl that does this... she doesnt mean to, she is just so great, that it makes me feel less great... she is sort of something I fantaize about catching, and making as mine. But can I do that to a type like her without breaking her spirit?
Do you think she has an inclination for BDSM? Because she calls me "sir" sometimes, like when I am being cocky and dom-like, she goes with it and sort of sarcasically says things like "whatever you say sir" or "yes sir" which makes me feel alpha.
Okay this is going to sound weird, but she has some type of back problem... not an actual problem, (I think she pulled a muscle or something) and the other day at her house she was telling me how her back was killing her, we were playing videos games together, then we later decided to have some drinks...she got up to get some glasses from a cabinet but couldn't reach, she could have if she tried but her back hurt... she was like "oww I cant do this...get these down for me" so I did... I jokingly said "what? are you going to need a wheelchair soon or something?" and she said back something like "it's only a matter of time... if my ass ends up in a wheelchair, you'll still hang out with me, right?"
(she said "its only a matter of time" because she is extremely clumsy and always getting hurt, which I find very adorable)
Now I dont want her ever in a wheelchair, plus she has an extrmely nice ass, but her little modest comments (that she says all the time) turn me on... I like the fact that she is somewhat in pain, or a little screwed up and needs assistance here and there... and that she knows it and is cool with it...
All I really want to do is shock her and do some kinky BDSM type of stuff to her... part of me is really turned on by the idea because she is so genuine and truly doesnt deserve painful stuff to happen to her, but I like feeling bad for her when she is in pain, and helping her... does this make sense? Is this fetish called something? I want to look more into it! Any ideas as to how?
