My name is Ben. I've been in the lifestyle since I was 18 although I have been interested in it for quite sometime... I do not claim to be overly experienced but I am not new to it either. I am the most patient person you will ever meet. I never tend to rush into anything. Rather, I like to go slowly and make decisions being informed. I don't believe in treating a lady as a dog. I realize that some people like that, it's just not me. The best submissive is the one that I can help learn, grow, and achieve goals not necessarily beneath me but next to me. "Behind every leading man is a lady." I do have an education and a developing career in the medical field. I am actively seeking a lady who can handle my type-A personality. From what I have learned that is pretty much only submissive women. If you would like to chat sometime I am always ready to listen. I am not going to ask you to strip naked on the first date nor do anything that is unladylike. Sex is a big part of relationships but not the only part. It will come in time. Patience is a virtue and I have nothing but time.