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Not looking for sexual D/s.
i seek a No Nonsense Lady to report to on a regular basis. One who sees the naughty boy inside the man and wants very much to spank his bottom long and hard to bring that boy out of the man. And then to spank that naughty boy. i seek a Disciplinarian who believes in good, firm scoldings and who believes a daily lecture each morning keeps a boy on track to behave as he should. i would be happy to find a Mommy who wants a man to report to Her so that She can age-reduce him down to a baby and then diaper him and keep him that way, whether She wanted to "raise" me as a boy or a girl. i would love to find Her nearby to report to Her in real, but for a Woman In Charge who wishes to, i will be her boy on cam and on the phone. If there is anybody out there who wishes to have a little boy as i wish to have a Stern Aunt or Mommy, i so very much would love to hear from You!

Have widened my search to include Dominant or switch males who would like to take me over their knee and treat me like the wayward son or nephew who needs a series of good long spankings to teach him his lessons.
5/26/2008 9:22:36 AM
It's my biggest hope: to find a Lady close enough to me so that i am easily able to report to Her when summoned or scheduled. To know that i have a Domme who is there to serve and who oversees me, correcting my behavior and motivating me to improve. i ache to have that One whose lap i know is meant for me to lay over for thorough spankings, whose expressions tell me so much before Her words begin to complete the mission of putting me in my place when i have it coming. But above all i ache to have that Lady who i can make smile with my diligence in doing the best i can to please Her, whether it be doing Her housework to Her satisfaction or being able to follow Her rules completely. The joy that comes from making Her happy with my service is indescribable. i wish SO MUCH that a Lady within an hour's drive of me would like to take me on as Her special "nephew"! And so the search continues, achingly...
10/13/2007 11:08:47 AM
my busy life is finally settling down once again, thank goodness!  It's been hard to not pursue my need to serve and be disciplined, and it made me sad that one patient Couple just yesterday let me know that They no longer could use me as one of Their boys to spank due to others They have taken on.  i want so much to please a Dominant while being overseen by Her!  So now that some regular schedule is available to me, i am once more seeking hard any Dommes who would get pleasure or satisfaction in Dominating me in return for non-sexual service. Please let me hear from You, Ma'am!
1/7/2007 10:22:40 AM
Happy New Year everybody!  As we start this year i am all the more driven to serve Dommes who want to straighten out a naughty boy with household discipline.  But i realize it does not have to be just an Aunt/nephew type of relationship, but could be a Boss/employee, Teacher/student or even just a Firm Friend who wants me kept in line through my serving Her. The intensity to serve Her when i see She really is interested in disciplining and punishing me grows quickly stronger as i want to please Her in what she wants accomplished (whether it's chores or assignments or just my behavior improving). i continue to hope to be privileged to correspond with California Dommes for the opportunity to serve!
8/6/2006 2:29:11 AM
i'd like to take an entry's space to say THANK YOU to those Dommes who have sent me replies to my messages to them. Though i'm sure many Dommes get a huge number of messages to sort through, i appreciate the time taken by anybody to reply to my words of hello to them.  i may even have found an Aunt to tend to me!  Time will tell once we get to know each other.  The respect shown to me as i seek out others who might share my interests keeps hope alive.
     To those who reacted as if i suddenly dropped in on their dinner and tried to sell them a new long-distance carrier, well, sorry to have offended you with my introduction and requests to chat, and if i wasted your time, well, i won't be wasting it again. i'm sure there are subs here who expect such a reaction and want to worship you, but it's not the level i want to be on in seeking to serve.
7/23/2006 2:06:36 AM
Sitting here musing while i search to see who's on Collarme... as i scan the list, i tend to look more at entries of Dommes my age or older, which makes sense if i'm looking for a Strict Aunt, but i think it's a good idea for me to state that i'm not hung up on age. i've met 20 year olds who are old-souls and have a sense of maturity that is amazing, and i've known senior citizens who still behave like they're in college. *shrugs* old-as-you-feel, young-as-you-feel sort of thing, i guess. So a person a generation younger than me could still be one "older"  in me in terms of maturity to Dominate me as my Aunt. Time will tell... *winks* i guess i'm also hoping that there may be here Dommes that have had and continue to have great BDSM relationships, or D/s collarings or owned slaves,  etc., and have come to a point where this more subtle, everyday type of Dominance might be intriguing. Not that i think it would be boring, since i believe i can  make for interesting company! i like to laugh and make people laugh (or groan) with corny  jokes and puns, etc. i enjoy a wide range of topics to discuss, and enjoy listening to others share their tales. Perhaps a Lady who didn't have kids, or never had a nephew, or just wants that again in a way that eliminates some of the muss or fuss when the nephew is a true juvenile! (after all, one can  punish an  adult nephew much more thoroughly than one can ever begin to punish a real juvenile one). Anyway, it will be wonderful to get that first summons-- after having gotten acquainted by way of emails, chats and phone calls, and then to meet in real and then be accepted by Her as Her nephew-- that first summons to report to Her to review my misbehavior and face the consequences for it, to drive there knowing that i'll be walking into a house with a sink of dishes to wash in the kitchen, a toilet to clean, a carpet to vaccum, along with an empty corner to stand in when i'm not being put to work or being pulled over Her knee so that She can blister my botton some more. Those first times will be amazing, i'm sure-- now if i can just get them! *smiles*
7/17/2006 12:09:10 AM
i'm sure that most here may be looking for connections that are of a sexual nature, but i am hopeful that some Dommes are open to the idea of discipline for discipline's sake; that is, to truly punish and set straight a man for real offenses and oversee his behavior so that he can improve it.  my hope is that those Dommes into the scene who have more usual BDSM interests can find ways to employ them in "raising" me as a nephew.  If i can't stay still while in session, She may need to restrain me.  If i've acted immaturely or She believes i've not been kind (or worse) to women, She may wish to dress me baby clothes or have me spend time in female clothes as a way to humiliate me into behaving better.  i believe there must be other elements that could be utilized, too, even though i'm Her nephew and not seen so much as a submissive.  If i could find an Aunt for whom i could fulfill a part of Her needs in that area, all while She enjoys having and playing with subs and/or slaves to pleasure Her in those areas, i would feel such happiness in being allowed to serve Her, and it would make Her control over me in tending to me all the more complete!