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About itsnormaltome
I would dearly like to find a woman for everything. I'd like a friend, confidant, a helper. A vanilla relationship, a 1950's household, a D/s and S/m relationship.
It starts with dating, but ultimately it would be great to come home and have a woman there that is interested in how my day went (OK, a woman that will fake being interested in my day at least).
Someone I can talk to that isn't in elementary school. Did I mention I have a son, he's 9. He is with me 50% of the time. He is a good kid, very perceptive. I don't plan to have any more children of my own.
It'd be nice to feel like I'm not doing it all on my own. I can't be the only one who sometimes feels overwhelmed with the repetitiveness of the daily chores. I'd like to have someone to share the load. I can, and do, get it all done, but having some help; that would be nice.
I do vanilla stuff. I enjoy cooking and I'd be happy to share the cooking duty if you will help with the clean up. I have a regular bar, but don't always drink alcohol when I'm there. I go to the gym. I like to kayak, recreational, not whitewater. I help my son with homework. I listen to music, but not country. I watch TV, but not "reality" shows. I do the laundry, but sometimes don't fold and put it away. I clean the house, but not often enough. I shovel snow.
As far as the not vanilla stuff...
I'm a Dominant, it just seems to come naturally to me. I look at it as my duty to take care of those that are important to me. I want to be strong for them, I want to solve their problems, or better yet, help them avoid the problems all together. I look at the D/s stuff as a natural aspect of the relationship, even the vanilla relationship.
I have not done a lot of research into what being a Dominant means in respect to the BDSM lifestyle. I don't do rules or protocols. The D/s aspect isn't kinky for me, I just am dominant. Quietly dominant, though. I don't wear lots of leather and put on a show about it.
I also consider myself a Sadist. I do like a good flogging, but pretty much just on your butt. Clothespins, clips, clamps and such are fun too, in various locations.
I do not go for anything that results in blood. I don't want to push needles into your breasts or put hooks through the flesh on your back and suspend you from them, that just doesn't do anything for me.
The S/m bit is erotic for me and I need you to enjoy it also. Just putting up with it because I like it won't work. It is so much more fun when we are both into it.
Being healthy, eating well and being physically fit is important also. You don't need to be a petite little thing, but you should at the least workout regularly. I do, so I'm not asking for anything I don't do myself.
Well, if any of this makes sense to you; great. Let me know.
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