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I have seen so may profiles on here that have one common thread. So many are convinced that everyone on here is not real or serious. Sometime I would tend to agree with that. I will say that I am real and I am serious about finding one special person. I have no objections to having fun while in the process but I try and show as much respect for someone as I can.
Why would I want to call you slut bitch cunt or 1000 other derogotory terms at a first conversation when I don't even know you? Those that would start off a conversation this way have no concept of what it means to be Dominant.
We all must live and function in a normal world as well. Anyone who thinks that this is not the case is only fooling themselves. I have yet to see a Dominant at a family gathering haul his pants down and say to his woman "Suck my cock bitch" in front of his relatives. ( would make for interesting conversations).
I live and work in world where not everyone understands a D/s relationship and I prefer to keep it that way.
The one I seek will be able to live in the real world and make me proud to have her at my side. What happens in the confines of our own environment is for the 2 of us alone.
I seek one who will convey what she is seeking and allow me to guide her on her journey. Submission is not all about giving up contol. It has to do with opening up your true inner most thoughts wants and desires to someone willing to lead you on a path of exploration.
There will be tears and disapoinment along the way for both parties but that is just normal living.
I don't want a doormat I have a very nice one thanks. I want a woman who is secure enough with herself to let go. Someone who wants to create something private and wonderfull. A woman who wishes to be guided --sometimes with pleasure sometimes with pain--but always with love and respect. Even somone who thrives on abuse and humiliation is to be respected by her Dominant. She has given up everything to please and a gift like that needs to be cherised for what it is.
I am not perfect. I fall and I fail. But I will keep trying and keep searching. You are out there wanting to be taught and to be lead. |