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ITopUrBottom - Female Dominant, San Francisco California | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About ITopUrBottom

You Look Like The Kind of White Boy I Used To Beat Up After School-

but I married a lush of a jock and you married a door mat, or a Stepford trophy wife to over compensate. Now you're stuck in shitty Danville, land-locked in the 'burbs, or you live out of hotel rooms, pimping your soul in exchange for stability and mediocrity. Ssssssucker!

Too bad for you that all the best shrinks that money can buy won't shake your verboten compulsion for me, a statuesque (5'9) married 35 y.o. Afro-Cuban spit fire of a domme mistress with a naturally busty hour glass figure, 150 lbs (size 8 dress), a cinnamon complexion, freckled button nose, high cheek bones, long legs, trim waist, dark eyes and straight jet black hair.

Don't worry, I have zero interest in stealing you from the lil' wifey, I just wanna borrow you for my own opportunistic ends for a mutually spoiling friendship with bennies. Remember, we both like being married, we just want to escape from time to time where I get to be the boss of you, and if we role play, I just may slap you around a lil' bit , blow smoke in your face, or tell you off in a way that your employees wish they could, if I'm in a good mood). I promise to return you no worse for the wear (except for that invisible hole where your heart used to be).

Irish Catholic men seem to become especially bewitched by me for some strange reason (maybe the novelty of a black chick with freckles??), and I have a soft spot for them. Then I stomp all over it with my 6 inch platform stilettos. I'm into all kinds of kinky hi jinx, but abso-fucking-lutely *nothing* that would jeopardize my health. And you just love that about me, even though it's frustrating in a good way. I will give priority to those of you heavy into chastity training, behavior mod, erotic humiliation, bitches who smoke cigarettes and use human ashtrays with gloves and ciggie holders, feminization, role playing and fetishes like boots, shoes, corsets and vintage hats.... especially if you already have the equipment.

I REALLY REALLY REALLY (no, really) want to meet a guy with a REAL DOLL! They cost a gazillion dollars, but sex dolls are such creepy fun, cleaner and have a lot more personality than a lot of human Kens and Barbies sucking all the oxygen out of the atmosphere. There, I said it.

I may reply to you if you are at least 60 yrs. of age (sorry, no 40 somethings), married, financially solvent, discreet, mature, and have already had successful affairs of this sort in SF's better hotels (as have I). You are adventurous but not stupid, so you already have a cell just for this purpose, No couples action. My husband is not a part of this package, nor do I care to meet your wife/S.O./girlfriend or whatever, so don't ask.

thanks



miss pilar

UPDATE- NO ONLINE 'FANTASY PLAY'. I am for real, looking to play only IRL. All others will be deleted.

Dear 'submissive' men under 55 yrs of age-

 

I know that the majority of you have been raised with life altering social changes, such as the sexual revolution, etc.

 

Many, if not most of you who were not raised in traditional homes or who were brought up in 'broken' homes (god, that sounds so retro! lol) are very confused about true female dominance versus faux women's lib.  If you need reference, please research the male bower birds and what they do to get the female bower birds attention.

 

You will find that the male bower birds are the ones who bend over backward to woo the female, NOT the other way around. The man asks a woman, then the woman either accepts, or not. That means that the WOMAN has the power, because she retains the ability to veto or not. It is really so very basic. Can't believe that I actually have to spell this out. I am very suspicious about the motives of he who would try to subvert that natural order. He ain't no "submissive", that's for dang sure!

 

You're welcome for a very important life lesson that they probably did not teach you in school.

I find it to be the height of sheer, utter irony that the most truly submissive men were raised in traditional households. I think that this means that housewives from back in the day were more empowered than these modern career women. The latter have raised some hardcore misogynists whom I would not want to meet in a dark alley, the former have raised chivalrous gentlemen willing to do my bidding. The truth hurts.

 

SO thanks a lot, all of you freaking ruinous, termite like 'social engineers'!! LOL

 

 

 

 

I am so lucky to play with submissive men who do NOT confuse being passive aggressive dbags for being "submissive".

 

If you still don't know the difference, then I really don't want to know you.

 

cheers!

I think I will start accepting consultation tributes to weed out the looky lous and time vampires (who suck, and not in a good way) from the good, solid people whom I've met and played with.

 

 

Ok, so I will be fairly busy preparing for my upcoming shoot for the next two weeks. If I have plans to meet you in the near future, I will be checking here occasionally for updates and to follow up on our most recent communiques regarding the logistics.

 

Everyone else, thank you so much and stay in touch. Damn, I'm a poet and I didn't even know it. Roses are red, asses are, too, I'm that bitch you know you want beating you.

 

kk byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!

 

miss pilar

 

 

Wow, I've only had to block one or two freak shows, and my inbox has been flooded by the responses! Hot damn.  Can't really complain.

 

Somebody who probably got stuffed in lockers and is still reliving the trauma is all butt hurt...

 

All together now, "Awwwwwww".......

 

On Social Anxiety And Saying "Hello"-

 

It's nice when people say hello. It's nice when people offer me unique gifts because they are so grateful that I've urinated on them, or made them wear my panties to work. 

 

It's even nicer when someone offers a brief introduction other than "Hi Ma'am". So from here on out, if you just say "hello" with nothing else to offer about yourself, I'm going to conclude that your balls are not worthy to swing in my little satin purse.

 

the end

 

G'bye! have a nice day!

This is an addendum to the cattle call for male submissives modeling in discreet shoots:

 

I prefer to keep my creative ideas confidential, but I also know that you probably don't wanna have to worry whether or not this is going to come back and bite you in the ass one fine sunny day when you're aiming for a Supreme Court nomination....

 

 

soooooooo...

 

How's about this... 

 

If you reply to the cattle call expressing interest in the shoot, please do so with the understanding that your identity would be obscured. Also, if you have ions regarding where your image will wind up once in my clutches, please state them, so I'll know who the better candidate is.

 

If you don't care where or what I do with them, please state that as well.

 

miss pilar

 

 

Cattle Call For Male Submissives To Pose Discreetly For My Modeling Shoots-

 

No, I'm not necessarily looking for Brad Pitt, either. The more plumber's crack, grey hair and man boobage you possess may be more of an asset to me than you ever knew could be possible.

 

To weed out the bullshitters and time wasters who just like to whack off online, I am giving priority only to those who can actually prove to me that they've modeled for photos already (links, web presence, blah blah), or those who have references from mistresses for whom they have posed.

 

Don't call me, I'll call you.

 

Nnnnnnnext!

I'm still trying to decide if the sexual revolution was a socially engineered trick to convince goody two shoes to give up the stank, or if it was a blessing in disguise to thin the competition for the cock teasing alpha bitches.

 

Hmm. I'll have to think on that one and get back to you.

 

I love how easy it is maintaining mystery in an age where chicks post their pap smear results on fakebook.

 

 

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