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Male Submissive, 55, Baltimore, Maryland
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Male Switch, 32, toronto
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Female Submissive, 22, London
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About ItJustIs
It is possible for anyone to learn a new technique or to practice some new skill.
Indeed, doing so can be both exciting and memorable, even for those who are otherwise vanilla. Its like trying on a new costume or visiting a new amusement park. It is fun, anyone can enjoy it, and it ends when the park closes.
It is not possible, however, to learn to be a slave, a sub, a dom or a Master.
Doms are born. Masterhood is taken by a Dom who desires that particular responsibility.
As for subs and slaves, I believe that subs (like Doms) are also born, and that slaves (like Masters) become so by choice. I also believe that each of us is either essentially sub or essentially Dom at their core.
In our society, it sometimes takes a woman some considerable effort to feel confident and free enough to acknowledge and act upon her core -- especially if she is essentially sub and has spent her life having to control her environment and those around her.
I, for one, enjoy watching and helping this happen.
Contact me if you are trying to reach that part of yourself and are having trouble holding on to it for more than a fleeting moment. Perhaps I can help you out -- and enjoy myself at the same time.
Contact me also if you have a sharp mind, an ability and desire to be honest with yourself and others, are secure and happy in your submission, and wish to explore (through conversation and friendship) how Doms and subs (or perhaps just how this Dom and you) think, feel and react.
Both sorts of contact are most welcome.
[Also welcome are contacts from other Doms, Dommes, and couples (sub-sub, dom-dom, or dom-sub) seeking others with integrity, intelligence, curiosity, humor, and friendship.] |
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