as one of many followers of "onetrusub4u" I would like to point out that she has "disappeared" previously under similar conditions just before something big was suppose to happen. in this case the "wedding" and "start-up blog" were the big events. last time she was off for about six months so draw your own conclusions about this but hope that one of only a few things I trusted about this site might be nothing more than just another myth of someone's fantasy world!!