ItDom4u

Hello to all who read this. I am seeking a woman who is submissive in her soul. If you don't understand what that means, then you aren't her. I am not looking for a slave that I keep chained in the basement. I want an actual relationship that would involve dinner and a movie, travel, etc. It would be monogamous as well. I only want one special submissive woman in my life. I miss that so much.
I am not extreme in My Dominance. In other words, I do not have a dungeon full of "toys". I am not going to have you on a leash at the mall, and I am not a screamer. My dominance comes from my self assured demeanor. I must have control because I know in my heart that I know what is best for both of us.

Sexually speaking, I do very much enjoy seeing you in helpless situations, where you are powerless, and must endure whatever suites me at that moment. So, you will be bound and gagged, you will experience some "discomfort", such as the sting of a belt and the pinch of a clamp. If you are the submissive that I seek, these sexual activities will draw you more deeply to me. You will learn to enjoy the things that I enjoy, because that is what makes you truly submissive. If you have a list of activities that you require in order to feel submissive, you aren't submissive. That just means you like kinky sex. Again, if you don't understand that, you aren't her.

I am self employed (are you really surprised?), and I make a nice enough income that I prefer you not work. That way, you can be there for me whenever I want you, in whatever capacity I want you. This is not a deal breaker, but you get major points if you can easily quite your job after we have "courted" for several months. That reminds me, I am a very patient man. I am not looking to move you in next week. Even if the chemistry between us is absolutely incredible, you will not be living with me for a few months. My patience also applies to my search here. I know who I want, and I will not compromise. If she does not exist on CM, then I will continue to live in the vanilla world.

So, who is this woman? Well, she is between 30-45. Yes, she must be younger than me because I look ten years younger than I am, and women my age remind me too much of my mother. lol She must be above average in appearance. Why? Because I said so. I want a woman who can have her pick of the men in the vanilla world, but she chooses to submit to me because I make her feel complete within her soul. I prefer an outgoing woman to an introvert. This is where it gets tough, because it seems that submission and shyness seem to go hand in hand. I just get along better with outgoing women in the vanilla world, and half our time will be spent there. In the bedroom, you will be that shy, timid little girl. At dinner, you will be able to discuss the topics of the day as two intelligent adults. Yes, intelligence is required. I realize that is a term that is not easily defined. But, you know if you are intelligent or not. And if you don't know, you probably aren't. :)

I don't care about your past, so if you have ex husbands, children, etc., that's not a problem, as long as your past relationships are COMPLETELY over, and the kids don't live with you. I do not want kids living in our home. I love kids, but I really don't want to raise any at this stage.

I plan on sending mail to those profiles that appeal to me. However, I may not see yours, or perhaps I just skipped over it, so if you read this, and you feel a connection to my words, now is the time to show that you are outgoing, and send me a BRIEF message. I will include a pic with my messages, and I want you to do the same.