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About isclarke
Labels may be inaccurate, but they are convenient. So for the sake of a brief introduction let me describe myself with them. I am Singaporean Chinese, English-speaking, male, 1.75m tall, with spectacles, and I weigh about 75 kg. I am straight, intelligent, geeky, and kinky.
Personality: I am intense when engaged, languid when at ease, and passionate about the people and the things that matter to me. Around strangers and acquaintances I'm wry, analytical, competent, and reserved; around close friends and lovers I'm playful, mischievous, warm, caring and loyal. And I always try to be down-to-earth.
A partner once described me, several years ago, as having a bit of a Victorian approach to sex: outwardly proper and strait-laced, but surprisingly kinky in private. I'm working on that, though. Heh.
Interests (kink):
Ideally, I would like to find a smart, slim, submissive woman with a compatible personality and similar interests to eventually be my 24/7 partner. I've found that control and ownership of my submissive both turns me on and provides me with deep physical and emotional satisfaction, both in and out of the bedroom.
The well-being and pleasure of my submissive is extremely important to me; I think of my role as Dom in terms of nurturing my submissive, providing a structure to help support and correct her in ways she wants to grow towards, as well as to shape her in ways which are deeply pleasing to me -- and of course, to fuck both her body and her mind in any and all the ways that please me, because she is *mine*.
Having been in a 24/7 relationship before, I've found that some of the most satisfying parts of a D/s relationship are the day-to-day reminders that you and your partner are Dom and sub, that you have found each other, and you fulfill each other's needs. I loved waking up to a "Good morning, Sir", and tucking my submissive into bed at night.
The D/s dynamic isn't mutually exclusive with building a wonderful relationship, and I hope to find a partner who complements me both in and out of the bedroom, who will not only be a submissive but a lover, and who I can build not only a physical but also a deep emotional bond with.
tl;dr -- I want to *own* someone in mind, heart and body, *completely*.
Interests (non-kink): I'm deeply interested in philosophy, current events, literature, current events, technology, policy, and history. I read widely and for fun: I love science fiction, adore Jorge Luis Borges and Terry Pratchett, am fond of the works of Neal Stephenson and Charles Stross, and am deeply in love with Neruda's poetry. I am also into video games, and have a soft spot for metal, jazz, and dubstep.
Pics? I apologize for not including a photo here but I'm very guarded with my privacy. I will be willing to send photos upon request, though.
Contact! I'd love to get to know more people, for any reason. Feel free to message me and start a conversation. |
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