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I am a sub, but not a doormat. I want to please my Dom, but I am a little defiant. I need someone to take control, I don't give it up easily. If you are pussy footing around my independent side comes out. I am very independent, take care of myself and my kids (I have 2 short people that depend on me and they are my love and life, parts of my soul walking around on two legs). I do not want someone to come in and try and take over my life. I am working towards a career and it is very important to me. Nothing will change that. I will eventually hold a Masters degree. I believe intelligence is important, and need you to be able to hold a conversation. I also do not want/need someone to come in and think they need to pay for things for me. I take care of me, you take care of you.
My vanilla life interests are; camping, hiking, and the outdoors. I love the beach and mountain also swimming and feeling the sand between my toes. I love photography and enjoy finding the intricate beauty in life. My kids occupy a lot of my time, and I have to plan around them. I do not want them meeting anyone until I am in a committed relationship, as it's not healthy for them to see people come in and out. I enjoy reading and occasional tv time. I want to travel and experience things. I believe experiences are more important than material things.
I am positive, and will face challenges head on. I can't tolerate ostridge people that just stick their heads in the sand and pretend nothing is happening when there is a damn elephant in the room.
As far as sexual interests/lifestyle goes.
I have limited experience.
I am interested/like bondage, impact play/spanking. Also orgasm control, being controlled in general. I am not a masochist and while I have a highish pain tolerance, I don't want to be bruised up to the point I can't function. I am very much interested in the control/power exchange. I want to feel controlled. I want to feel like my Dom will take what he wants (within our consent based limits) and is strong/powerful enough to do so.
I want patience, but firm and consistent. If you are inconsistent I will be defiant and bratty. Which I will be a little bit anyways. I am not a full blown brat, and ultimately want to please my Dom. Also if you order/demand me to do something... expect to follow through if I don't. ;-)
Ultimately I want a strong, firm, patient, caring Dom. I want someone who will not harm me, has a sense of humor, but demands respect.
Also: I am not into rape/abduction play or full on sadism. (some pain is good) I am open to a lot, but have a few hard limits. I do not want to be demeaned and/or tortured. I believe that even in a sub/Dom relationship there is respect and care. That doesn't mean no punishment etc.
I want a exclusive relationship, I don't like to share. I also want a relatively "normal" appearance in the vanilla world. I am perusing a career and will not change that. I also have kids and want them to see a healthy example of a relationship. That doesn't mean there cannot be basic rules/respect. Just that you will not demean or humiliate or physically punish me me in public/in front of my kids or anyone's.
I am open to discussing more please contact me. :-)
I am on fetlife Isabella_sage
Also: edit- I want to meet in person. I want something real and if you are not localish (easy driving distance/a few hours) I'm not interested. I cannot and will not submit to a online persona. There has to be real "incentive" for me to submit. Also. I am a sub at my core, but you will have to peel back the bratty nature first.
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