| |
|
|
Home |
|
|
|
|
Browse |
|
|
|
|
|
Live |
|
|
|
|
Join |
|
Collarspace |
|
|
|
|
Dating |
|
|
|
|
News |
|
|
|
|
Glossary |
|
|
|
|
Mobile |
|
|
|
|
Alt |
|
|
|
|
Safety |
|
|
|
|
Toys |
|
|
|
|
Live BDSM |
|
|
|
|
Resources |
|
|
|
|
Welcome |
|
| |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Login |
|
|
 |
|
 |
|
|
|
|
Male Dominant, 57, Naples
|
Dominant Couple, 50, Greensboro, North Carolina
|
Male Dominant, 27
| | |
|
| Back |
| KPM |
| Directory |
| Interests |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
| |
About IronMan916
Hello,
I am 37, (SWM, tall and fit) financially independent and I have always been involved in the BDSM scene. I am single and have never been married, I have no children. I would like to have a relationship that is kinky- Dominant/submissive.
I am a Dom and I take the submission that is given to me seriously. I have a Sadistic side; but I also believe in having a close, heartfelt relationship with my submissive. I truly believe that shared or inflicted pain tightly connects people. I am thrilled by how BDSM binds people closer together and intensifies their relationship.
I would like to have a relationship that is realistically close to 24/7. I say "realistically close to 24/7" because nobody can do 24/7 fully. Even in a 24/7 relationship you have to do normal things like: go to work; talk to your family; spend some fun time going out to eat, going to movies; curling up on the couch to watch TV together etc. However, I am amazed by how many small things people do that show togetherness every day. I like to find small but meaningful things that people can work into their daily routine that show submission or Dominance: daily rituals done in private, wearing something special (clothing or jewelry), calling/texting people at certain times to keep in touch, etc.
Because I genuinely believe that bdsm emotionally binds people very closely together, I believe in communication; I customize my training methods to the person. I think that its wrong to have a cookie cutter approach to bdsm.
In my most recent relationship; my sub had a lot of serious esteem and confidence issues. I really feel that being a full time Dom is a serious responsibility; as a lot of your time is more involved with helping the sub work through life issues. That is how BDSM helps to bind people very close together. When you submit to someone you end up opening up your whole self; your mind, emotions soul to them. Good Dominance means taking that so serious that you take great care in owning it. Being a Dom is a lot more then just tying someone up. I feel comfortable taking on that responsibility.
Who am I, what is it like to hang out with me? On the outside I appear to be a normal average guy. However, I have an incredible capacity for Domination and caring together. I say Domination and caring together because I believe that BDSM can be part of a happy, healthy and loving relationship.
I sometimes enjoy going out and playing in the community or going to munches; but not on a regular basis. I used to be part of a dance group and I occasionally travel during the weekends to go to different events. I travel a lot around Northern California for work and for fun.
I'm 6 foot tall and weigh 210 pounds, I have blond hair and have dark blue eyes; I have fair skin. I work out regularly at Cal Fit; I usually use the Cross trainer; the one that feels like a cross between a stair stepper and a treadmill. I have photos; I don't post them but I send them to people who message me.
|
|
|
|
|
Male Dominant, 50, Hollywood, Florida
|
Male Dominant, 50, El Paso, Texas
|
Male Switch, 51, louisville, Kentucky
|
Female Submissive, 38, san fernando, California
| | |
Male Dominant, 36, Burgettstown, Pennsylvania
|
Male Dominant, 60, Lawrence, Massachusetts
|
Female Switch, 24
|
Female Dominant, 30, Los Angeles, California
| | |
Male Switch, 60, New Britain, Connecticut
|
Male Submissive, 40, new jersey
|
Male Dominant, 34, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
|
Male Dominant, 38, Oakland, California
| | |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
