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About ipsissimus
I am in real life successful, with a very responsible position, but behind the scenes I have always known I am submissive to women, strong, dominant, assertive, even aggressive women have attracted me from an early age.
This attraction to strong, assertive, aggressive women takes an unashamedly sexual form. In my work place, I constantly have to make decisions that affect others, to some extent I do their thinking for them, but in the context of domination/submission relationship, I want that taken away from me completely. I don't really have time for people who are into BDSM that "act out scenarios" - to me that is simply acting. I want the real thing, I want to submit myself to a woman and to her demands unconditionally. An ideal would be a situation without a safeword, it would be based on trust and understanding.
I am looking for someone I can meet regularly, someone who is very much into one-sided sexual satisfaction, someone who enjoys activities such as queening, facesitting and enjoys prolonged pussy worship and ass worship, someone who would expect me to explore and fulfil he using my tongue and fingers over many hours. I am not primarily or necessarily looking for a relationship that involves straight sexual intercourse - it can play it's part and it can be made to be very fulfilling with a woman in charge. One of my most intense experiences was with a woman who restrained me, tying me down on my back, she then mounted me in a reverse straddle position, sitting quite heavily on my stomach and then proceeded to have a great deal of pleasure from a very slow and long intercourse lasting well over an hour, because of the angle, she was fulfilled (more than once) and I experienced heightened sensations particularly as I was completely unable to climax without her letting me.
But I also want to serve, to give something back, it might simply be some form of domestic service, it might be my limited expertise in DIY, it might be my more considerable expertise in gardening, it might be my relative expertise in massage or meditation, I also enjoy tutoring, within my areas of expertise, I am also reasonably skilled in lifestyle development, personal coaching. All in all, I want to be of use, to be of service.
I am not looking for a 24/7 relationship, I am however, looking for something regular and building up a relationship with a dominant woman. I am separated but supporting my children at home. Why is there not photo on my profile? Quite simple, really, I have recognised someone on this website who knows me in my workplace.
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There seem to be so many "dommes" on this site that seem to think it Ok to address male submissives as "scum", "low life" etc. But what about those male submissives who actually lead very full, successful lives yet happen to have an innate feeling and desire of submissiveness to women? |
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Female Domination in Literature
I read a lot of classical literature and am amused by how many times there is even a subtle allussion to female domination.
I remember reading with considerable surprise on of the tavern scenes in Henry IV Part II in which there is a hint at facesitting.
Recently I read Westward Ho - which quite frankly I wouldn't recommend and it does contain a description of Lucy a woman who totally dominates her meek husband. |
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