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I've been in the lifestyle on and off for the last 10ish years. I'm technically a switch but am primarily interested in pursuing a relationship with a dominant at this point (that being said, switching with a guy would be okay too). Submission is the ultimate turn-on for me, though it doesn't come naturally. I have had many play experiences but I've put those years behind me - I'm looking for an actual relationship with D/s undertones, though a total 24/7 arrangement isn't something I think would be good for me right now. I have dabbled in Daddy/girl play and would be open to that. That being said, I really am looking for someone who is around my age and location. I'm looking for someone I connect with on a vanilla level, in addition to D/s interests. Someone who can be my best friend in addition to my dominant. My hope is that we challenge each other to be the best versions of ourselves. I've filled out the interests so check those out if you're curious about what I'm into, both BDSM and vanilla wise :) I'm happy to share a picture if there is a connection after some communication. I am BBW though, so if that's not your thing, it's all good.