Hello all, my name is IOD (If you are submissive and choose to be formal with me, you may refer to me as LORD IOD). I am friendly with everyone so feel free to contact me about anything that may be on your mind. I am constantly reading and studying theory (I'm secretly a nerd) about BDSM and Fetishism, I am now putting the theory with practice. I also try to attend as many classes as possible. I will continue to learn as much as possible so if you have something you feel you can teach me feel free to contact me. You can catch me at events in Manhattan. Message me if you have any questions. I am always evolving therefore so is my profile. As of today my view of the scene is as follows.... At the end of the day the point of the scene is to enjoy yourself with like minded people. If you are in a situation where you are not happy you need to get out. This especially goes for the ladies. If you're not having fun doing this then what's the point? If you would like me to elaborate don't hesitate to contact me.