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 Hello Everyone! I am a 39-year old female, single, and wanting to be an owned girl by one man. My philosophy is pretty simple really. I wish to be in a relationship where the man is in charge and I do as he wishes. I am not just a bedroom slave, but I submit in all areas, including helping him in whatever ways he desires. If he wants me to work then I will. If he wants me to stay at home and take care of his home and his away-from-work life then I will. My desire is to find one person who I trust implicitly and happily obey him in which ever ways he needs.
Please read my ENTIRE profile AND all of the JOURNAL entries BEFORE contacting me. I get a LOT of mail and if you ask about something that is already in my profile or journal, I won't be replying! Sorry, but I don't have TIME to hold the hands of men who can't bother reading a simple profile and simple journal entries: Jeesh, get some manners!
I live in California in the area of Los Angeles not far from San Luis Obispo, Bakersfield, Santa Barbara, Palmdale, Lancaster, Santa Monica, and Orange County. I will once in a while change the city in my profile to attract people who might be doing a search using that city name. By the way, I am willing to live anywhere (California or any other state or country) if the match is a good one. After all, it is hard enough to find a good match. Why let geography keep me from doing as I believe I was meant to do on this earth - serve a man and obey him happily.
Right now my life is fairly complete. I work and support myself, I have some good friends, and I have family that I am close to. I have things I like to do when I'm so inclined, such as bike riding, studying or taking a class for kicks/self improvement, cooking (currently learning Thai from a friend), going out for the day to do a hike or explore a new city, scanning the Internet for interesting sites, and spending some time at the gym trying to improve my body. All that really is "missing" is the M/s relationship where we each are a complement to the other.
Some things that I am not seeking: switch men, men who require a bi slave, men who smoke, men who are unemployed or living at home with parents, men who play around with drugs, men who want a poly household, men who look at life negatively. Also not seeking anyone below age 38 or above age 54-ish.
I am seeking to be in a relationship, and not seeking "play partners." I know a relationship doesn't usually happen overnight but I don't want to spend three months on here before meeting, and I certainly don't want to spend a lot of time emailing back and forth before talking on the telephone.
About my personaity - I am not a brat! I am not uncomfortable with my submissiveness! I do enjoy being allowed to express my opinion on occasion and I do hope for a man who appreciates a girl with intelligence and wit as I have both. I am a combination of being reserved and talkative. I easily laugh and have fun. I also need some time alone to recharge on occasion, too, by the way.
I hope to read mail from you if you think I may be the match for you! If you are able to write more than two lines, I think I'd be most appreciative! Thanks! 
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I'm in a very dark place emotionally these days. If you can't be gentle and patient, then don't contact me. If you can't be kind and polite, then don't contact me. If you talk about sex or BDSM activities, then you aren't the one for me. What I seek is profound: A connection of the minds, a dance between Master and slave. What BDSM activities I am "into" is completely irrelavent right now, and if you do not understand this, and if this doesn't make sense to you, and you still want to line up our lists and see how much overlap there is, then you are not the one for me.
Really, I find this search exhausting, and depressing, and saddening. All I want to do is take care of a man's needs, learn to please him, and make him happy. Why am I alone? I'd think I'd be a damned hot commodity, but men will toss me aside, even abusively, because of tiny little stupid things, like I am not tall enough, or too tall, or I have too big of breasts, or I am not Baptist like they are, or I have a cat, or I like hiking but not dancing. I mean, my GOD, what are you people searching for? A twin of yourself, but with tits instead of a cock?
Like I said, I am in a very dark place right now. |
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Nothing like sharing something private and having someone use that personal vulnerability against you later. |
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I sent an email to a female "Dominant" on here complimenting her on a post she put on the forum, and asking her a simple question in regards to said post. She didn't so much as acknowledge the compliment I gave her, nevermind answer the question. What a classless loser.
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Ever receive an email and just shake your head in bewilderment? Maybe the author is on antipsychotics or something, or maybe he has been on a bender half the night and then fired up the ol' computer and sent ya off an email. I just don't know sometimes. I am just shaking my head. |
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Can someone please write me a letter (or their own profile) that has something other than the usual cliches??? If I read one more "I want a submissive who will be a whore in the bedroom and a lady in public," or "I am strict but fair," I am going to scream, I tell ya! Scream!!!  |
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Here we go again. Here's an email I received this afternoon, in its entirety:
how r u
Here's my reply, in its entirety:
read my profile. 1. i dont reply to one-liners, and 2. you're too young for me. the only reason i am replying ot your letter is bec so many men on here bitch that women dont reply to their mail, and say we are unmannerly. well, we're not unmannerly. you guys are unmannerly for not reading the profile in the first place. |
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What is it with "Dominants" contacting me, and I send a polite reply back, and they write me a whole three words in return, and I send them another polite, two-paragraph reply back, and so it goes, back and forth, for three or four exchanges. And then I grow weary of it, and exclaim that if they want to know me, then frigging do some of the work! Hunt and peck out a few more words than three, and for goodness's sake, carry the damned conversation!!!
Sorry to huff and puff and curse and carry on, but jeeeeeeeeeeez, I am sooooooooo tired of "Dominants" who can't or won't lead!!! Here is a reply to his fourth email of "You can ask me anythin Ask what u want"
See, I don't like to ask anything. I just prefer people volunteer information, paint a picture. Why do I have to pull information? That is so rude, to expect me to pull teeth and draw out everything from the other person, ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU CONTACTED ME. I don't want to rip off your balls, but jeez..
Ivey
You know, it just dawned on me why I'm so furious right now. These ding-dongs are forcing me into a DOMINANT position, and guess what??? I am NOT a Dominant!!! So to be thrust into that position just irks the CRAP out of me, ESPECIALLY since we are on a D/s site, and the person in question represents himself as a DOMINANT!!!!!!
::::::sigh:::::: Now that you all think I'm a raving bitch.. But you know, I'm not. But even a kitten will hiss and spit if you torment it. |
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Am utterly frustrated. Why in the heck can't a Dominant man lead? I cannot stand these emails lately. They answer - minimally, by the way - the questions I ask, but volunteer absolutely NOTHING. I end up leading them by the hand, and if I don't lead, then invariably they fall away. What the hell?? This is Dominance???? Do these men have to be led by the hand to work, and told what to do, and have their bottoms wiped after taking a big shit? Really, I just want a man who, after making initial contact, keeps up the leading. It's frigging simple. Or at least it would seem as such, if indeed you are Dominant. |
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Please - no submissive males!! I am just simply not interested, and in fact kind of repulsed, actually. I mean, each to their own, but in my world, the male has the power and the female obeys.
If you are submissive, just don't bother. You'll end up in my Bulk Mail folder anyway, and when I do read your email, the first thing I do is see your classification as "Male Submissive" and that's the point that I stop reading. |
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Today I received an email from a "gentleman" that clearly isn't a match to me. I wrote him back (something I hear most girls on this site do not do) and told him that I didn't think we were a match, and his reply was that I am a bitch and no wonder I am alone. 
I should have just dropped it then, but I wrote him back, and gently reminded him that he, too, is alone. His reply was, "Wrong..got three subs meeting me this week" (his "grammar," not mine, by the way).
The lesson to me is to be ever more careful as to which men I associate with. If it weren't for him being a rude ass, who knows, perhaps I'd have been "sub" (gosh, I hate that word) number four of the week. No one wants to be played, yet this man is clearly on this site to just get sex from as many women as possible. (This from his profile, which is why I rejected him in the first place!!)
He was grotesque, and no doubt will bed at least one of those three submissives who probably only want to serve a decent human being. To the females on this site, be careful. Make sure of who you are with, as best you can, anyway, before giving your heart and your warm wet places. |
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I really dislike that word "naughty."
Naughty is a puppy who has peed on the carpet, or a 4-year old who refuses to stay in bed for his nappy. Naughty is not what I am, and you, as a Dominant Man, should certainly not be describing yourself, or what you seek, as naughty.
:::::barfing::::: I really dislike that word "naughty."
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Today I got an email of a somewhat snotty tone, complaining that how could I reject him (his word) based on one phone call, and that I couldn't possibly know him well enough to make that call. (Gosh, I do love puns and plays on words.)
I disagree with him when he says a girl can't say you're not Dominant enough/you're too Dominant before getting to know you thoroughly. A man's demeanor is discernible from the getgo. If a girl doesn't like how he presents himself, then she doesn't like how he presents himself.
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Please don't contact me if your profile is empty (or almost empty) and if you aren't prepared to actually volunteer information about yourself. No, I don't want your yahoo name. No, I won't ask you what I want to know. If you are too lazy to give some relavent information in a profile, or at least in an initial email, then just leave me alone, ok? I am not going to lead a Dominant by the hand, and tell him what I want to know, and draaaaaaaag information from him. Don't be so freakin' lazy, cuz it grosses this slavegirl out big time.
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Wow, got my first marriage proposal from here on collarme tonight. I signed on, hoping to see mail from a certain someone, and instead I have the following, sent by a gent in Portland, Oregon:
Seeking mate for life here you seem like solid relationship slave. I want marrage you?
Will wonders never cease?  |
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What kind of dishonorable prick simply disappears without offering even the most basic explanation? What a pussy, cancelling his username. A girl goes from daily 3-hour phone conversations on every topic except sex, and daily, "Wow, you're amazing," to nothing. Just nothing. Flatline. Gone. Done. ::::::shakes head in utter disgust at the lack of common morality and decency::::::::: |
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Incredible. A man I trusted and talked with on the phone daily has abandoned me. He is just gone. If nothing else, a simple, "Buzz off, Wench!" would be so appreciated right now. But instead, he's just gone. I trusted him, bared my soul to him, and for what? He's just gone.
If nothing else, I'd think the showing respect from one human toward another human would be in order, and a simple, "I don't want to do this" could be offered up. But instead, nothing.
Men wonder why women on here are so scared to open up, so scared to meet, so scared to be their true and natural submissive selves. I have been all of those, and I am treated worse than a stray dog. Unbelievable. |
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Had an interesting conversation with a man this morning in IMs. He and I have been talking for a couple weeks or so now, and almost daily. He commented that I always seem a bit guarded, distant. He asked if I'd been burned. I told him that I had, yes, and many a time.
Eventually in the conversation, he asked for a piece of information that I didn't want to reveal. He told me to tell him, or he'd not sign on for three days. I told him I thought that if he really would do that, that I'd see him as a very mean man. His reply was, "10 seconds." I sat there, staring at the screen, wondering why the fuck it's so hard to find someone in this lifestyle who is not only Dominant, but reasonable, too. Sure enough, he signed off.
Funny that he'd ever have wondered why I am somewhat guarded in conversations. |
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What is it about people on this site not signing emails with their name? Is "Joe" or "Gregory" just way too personal? Yet people can tell me about their very intimate thoughts on what they seek in a girl, and what they seek emotionally and sexually, but they continue to sign emails with their username, or not sign at all, even after many email exchanges. Seems paradoxical.  |
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Some thoughts over the past few days: Don't tell me to call, and then have your phone 1. in the truck, 2. turned off, and 3. you're in the shower anyway. This shows me you are rude, inconsiderate, and aren't good at planning. Why would I submit to a man that can't organize a phone call, nevermind the ins and outs of slavehood? Noooooooo, no, this is not the behavior of a Dominant. |
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It's amazing to me how many emails I get that are not a match to what I state I'm seeking in my profile. |
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Umm, I won't be replying to anymore one-liners. If you are too lazy to write something personal to me, then you are way too lazy to have the responsibility of holding my slaveness in your hands.
Also, I have my mail controls set to send any mail from a man under age 38 and over age 53 into my bulk mail. I will read your mail when I can. |
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