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Male Dominant, 27, London
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Male Submissive, 22
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Male Dominant, 40, Norfolk, Virginia
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About InventiveDom
Hi,
Im a smart, open minded and confident guy, who has been into the D/s lifestyle for a long time.
Im looking for a masochist female up to around my age, within around an hours drive or less for ideally something long term or meaningful - i'm of course happy with casual.
So why do i love BDSM?
When it comes to BDSM im fascinated by the emotions and feelings that can be invoked through denial, fear and uncertainty; how the crack of a whip can feel as good as a tender touch when you know what effect it will have on your subject and how careful bondage and control can make every touch feel intense.
If that sounds somewhat stuffy, then consider this: an orgasm is the greatest gift we have, why wouldnt we explore absolutely every aspect of it, why wouldnt we make the very most of it?
What kind of person am i?
Ive always been a people person, i love understanding how people tick, and i think im a pretty sound guy because of it. Im not here because i see it as a way to make up for something i lack in life, because i enjoy seeing others unhappy nor because i need to feel in control. Im here because i hope to find people open to exploring their sexuality in whatever guise.
Im a professional, happily single now after a long relationship and really looking to take some serious time to find someone on my wavelength.
Outside kink i love cooking, again, taste is a gift that shouldnt be wasted. I have a passion for all things spicy though so beware!
Entertainment wise i love anything with a dystopian theme and am fascinated by totalitarian cultures past present and future. I love 1984, Those rare stories about N.Korea or Soviet Russia, Fatherland, Mad Max etc.
My music tastes are eclectic and depend on my mood, sometimes i need dark house and ambient, sometimes old skool indie or rock, othertimes i crave fresh new stuff.
Aside from that my ever faithful hound takes much of my attention.
I have no real agenda here, i like to chat and want to meet new people, so dont be afraid to say hi.
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Im thinking that after reading so many profiles - the main frustrations people face here is "the search" - analysing people from a handful of messages is impossible and there are eloquent nutters and grammatically inept genuine people. What does a 30 minute cup of coffee cost in time or money - use this place like a bar, you might not go home with everyone you chat to, but if you go home alone after a few amusing conversations you wont feel bad done by.
Then theres the abundance of messages - thats easy - weed out the cut and pastes, the weirdos and reply a simple question to the rest. dont expect to find their life story, just decide if they are equiped to handle life or fantasists and grab that coffee.
I think half the problem is we want to find out partners online! Thats not how it works, you meet people online, you find your partner maybe weeks or months after you meet someone... |
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Font size... apparently a testament to your character, you have been warned..! |
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New profile, thought it deserved an update!
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Think i've just found a little diamond!
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Thanks for all the ideas guys - I wish i could go with everything suggested, although some are extreme even for me! lol (you know who you are - sicko!)
Will keep you posted once i get it finished and then certain faithful subbies can give it a try sometime!
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I am in the process of creating a playroom and would like some input from you mguys as to what toys/equipment i should start with - space is limited and i have one wall i can bolt things to. All ideas welcome - photos to follow shortly.
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