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| I'm a 35 female submissive from Wisconsin
A little About Me:
If you want to know the past, to know what has caused you, look at yourself in the PRESENT, for that is the past's effect. If you want to know your future, then look at the PRESENT, for that is the cause of the future."
--Majjhima Nikaya
Hobbies & Intrests:
Classical music in the park, Dancing in the rain, Sleeping in the sun, Thunderstorms and a good book. Cold days, a cup of soup and a fireplace.
Favorite Quotes:
"If I could come back as anything, it would be as one of your tears. How could I want more then to be conceived in your heart, born in your eyes, live on your cheeks and die on your lips... "
"If good could be better then good is not good enough."
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Just wanted to bump this one to the top...
Here is a piece of advice... If you are still living in your mama's basement, don't have a job, don't have an education, don't plan on getting one and have mastered nothing other then your kitty cat DON'T EMAIL ME!
If you expect me to call you, jump on the webcam or start cybering moments after we make contact... DON'T EMAIL ME!
If you think I'm a player because I have limits, morals, and values... DON'T EMAIL ME!
This is the type of conversations I am getting sick of. (the name of course is not real and if there is a John Doe on this site it is purely coincidence)
John Doe: whats ur #?
John Doe: i can talk a bit later
intricatepieces A: what number?
John Doe: phone
John Doe: be a good girl
John Doe: ill call at 8 sharp
intricatepieces A: hmmm how long have we been talking now… 5 minutes?
John Doe: yes
intricatepieces A: how about this... you go back read my profile... and tell me if you think I'm really going to give you that number after only talking briefly
John Doe: are u one of those?
intricatepieces A: one of what?
John Doe: logic: im here to meet people, but i will inhibit communication= not meeting people
John Doe: but
intricatepieces A: laughs... that is not what I said at all...
John Doe: on second thought, ill take my offer back
John Doe: i will see u again. take care
intricatepieces A: but I do believe that it is silly for a woman to give out her phone number to someone after talking for less then 5 minutes. I wouldn't give my number to a gentleman I met in public after 5 minutes. John Doe has signed out. (1/8/2009 6:03 PM)
Now...
If you are looking for a woman who accepts who she is even when she struggles. A woman who lives only feeling complete by serving another. Who trusts and respects herself for who she is and what she has to offer. Who can author her own life yet chooses to let another write it for her. If you seek a woman who can move on her own behalf but desires to walk only for the one she serves. Then please email me
I have been in the lifestyle for 10+ years... I'm a bit of a masochist, not in the sense that I enjoy pain but from the perspective that I enjoy having to endure it. If any of the above is of interest then I look forward to hearing from you! |
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100 things you never really wanted to know about me~
1. I have 2 wonderful and healthy children
2. Both boys
3. They look just like me
4. I love to cook
5. I love to eat even more
6. My favorite season is autumn
7. I donated plasma for extra spending money in college
8. I am a bone marrow donor
9. I would donate a kidney or liver portion if it would save someone’s life
10. I am catholic
11. I dreamt of being a nun and actually went to a convent for an entire summer
12. There is a cross in every room in our house
13. I became a nurse because I wanted to help sick children
14. I hated pediatrics
15. Made me cry a lot
16. I use to be afraid of old people
17. Turns out I loved geriatric care
18. My favorite plants are tulips
19. I have traveled to 23 different countries
20. I learned sign language just for fun
21. I have never gotten a speeding ticket
22. I have no cavities
23. My favorite drink is water
24. My first car was a Toyota pick up with lights mountedon a 2x4 and cost $600.00
25. Laughing when nervous gets me into a lot of trouble
26. The only thing pierced are my ears
27. I love to travel
28. I have had several eye surgeries
29. My vision is 20/200
30. I can’t drive at night
31. But I sometimes do
32. I was born in March
33. Which makes me an Aries
34. I can play the clarinet
35. And the harp
36. I played a clarinet duet at a state competition.... we won
37. I have been in the "lifestyle" for 13 years
38. I love humiliation
39. Being in trouble sometimes makes me hot (when I'm caught after that the reality hits)
40. I am a masochist
41. I started fantasizing about spanking when I was 11 or 12
42. I have parachuted out of a plane
43. I didn’t tell my parents until after I had landed safely
44. I have had a flag in the front of every house I have lived in
45. I was a girl scout
46. My biggest flaw is procrastination
47. But I work best under pressure
48. I am a perfectionist
49. I am a republican
50. I have bought lunch for a homeless man
51. He shared it with me and we had a great conversation
52. His name was Paul
53. I was voted most shy in high school
54. I can’t whistle
55. I have given rides to hitch hikers
56. After I picked them up I was scared to death
57. But I still did it again
58. My favorite food is spaghetti
59. I feel guilty buying things for myself
60. I love pottery
61. I have my own potters wheel
62. I try to avoid spending money
63. I am not good at sports
64. I love science
65. I love reading murder mysteries
66. And horror novels
67. I love lifetime movies
68. I cry over them a lot
69. I haven’t been drunk since college
70. I have a hard time saying no
71. I have never tried smoking
72. I am a terrible liar
73. I can’t hold a grudge
74. The silent treatment kills me
75. I cheated on a test once
76. I felt so guilty I went home and learned the material
77. If I feel someone is being treated unfairly I have to speak up
78. I can talk my way out of most situations
79. And usually get my way
80. If I could switch jobs I would love to be a mediator or negotiator
81. I hate shopping
82. There isn’t a room in my house that is white or beige
83. I would love to adopt a child or become a foster parent
84. I don’t like jewelry
85. But I always wear a watch and cross necklace
86. I had to repeat chemistry in college
87. The second time I took it I got an A
88. I have been with other women sexually
89. But they have to be Dominant
90. I was in a foster home for a year
91. I will not respect a Dominant who isn’t authoritative
92. Ironically I hate authority
93. Yet it turns me on
94. At times my temper is irrational
95. I am prone to panic attacks
96. I am a Walt Disney fan
97. I am terrified of failure
98. I am always cold (go figure I live in Wisconsin)
99. If I could have one super human power it would be to turn back time.
100. I am a jeans and sweatshirt kind of girl
Wow congrats if you made it through all of that! |
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Okay This is just killing me so I've got to talk about it... how much would you be willing to spend for a vibrator? $25? $50? $150? Do I hear $500? Anyone for $1000? What am I getting to pricey for you? Well if not you can purchase one from Lelo for the low low bottom basement price of $1,500! Yes you read that correctly. Lelo markets this little beauty as the essence of fashionable and deeply vibrating pleasure couture. This spendy trinket is made of sterling silver and handmade in 18 K gold-plate.
Call me cheap but I am tellin you right now if I paid $1,500.00 for a vibrator it better do more then provide deeply vibrating pleasure. It better crawl its ass out of the drawer, whisper sweet nothing in my ear, and provide me with hours upon hours of earth shattering, muscle clenching, animal screaming, sheet grabbing orgasmic bliss after which it better go clean the rest of my fricking house. But don't worry it comes with accessories... included in the fifteen hundred dollars you get a fashionable moleskin carry pouch, a wooden gift box, a universal charger, introduction manual (wonder if this comes with step by step instructional pictures), and a 1-year LELO warranty. (Try explaining that to customer service...well what were you doing with it at the time of operational failure Ma'am? Ummm well uhhh I was errrr nevermind... click) It also is "splash proof" for he times you are just so wet you ummm splash? Now I've dripped, I've gushed, I've sopped, I've even pooled and puddled but I have never once in my life splashed. (Hmm perhaps a new goal?) It's also "very quiet" a bonus for those times when the buzz of the vibrator is just so annoying you can't seem to focus on the pleasure. Hmm never had that problem. Now I like to be as trendy as the next girl out there but I am thinking my ol' metallic pink and blue vibrator will have to do me a few more years cause I just can't see coughing up the cash for a pretty new gold one from Lelo. ~Rolls her eyes~ vibrating pleasure couture indeed! |
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Limits
I have been in the lifestyle for about 13 years now and during that time I have attended a lot of munches, gone to a lot of groups, and read my fair share of articles about limits. To be quite honest in the beginning I loved the thought of saying I had no limits... there was a rush I got by the thought of being totally and completely owned. Then I matured and thought a lot about what I would do, what I wanted to try, and what I wasn't willing to do under any circumstance. ~ Waits for the collective gasps ~ I think with time and a strong bond between a Master and submissive the "won't do" list becomes almost non-existent and "will try" list increases exponentially. This is typically common as the level of trust in a master slave relationship grows I think.
So seeing the topic come up I thought I would toss my 2 cents out there and hope no one tosses back change. Limits are such a touchy subject because there are those that cling to the theory that in order to be a slave one is not allowed any limits other then the limits set by their Master. Then there are those that say yes I am a slave but I do have limits and there are just something I will not do under any circumstances. I personally see nothing wrong with either side as long as any and all actions fall into the category of SSC (safe sane and consensual).
I am a huge huge huge believer that prior to accepting a collar communication on this very subject is a must. It is essential for the success of the relationship that a slave/submissive and a master discuss and establish each other's limits so that once the collar is placed there are no surprises for either party. That being said I don't think not having limits allows a slave to consider herself off the hook for choices that are outside the realm of SSC. I don't think a slave should ever allow the statement that "I was only following my Master's orders" to be a valid defense to any wrongdoing. Being a slave doesn't give you the right to shut off your brain and follow like a blind sheep into a world of destruction. I also would never advocate a new relationship to be without limits and boundaries as this is something a couple should grow into.
I like to consider myself a no "limits" slave within boundaries. I know that doesn't make a lot of sense but the reality is there are simply things I will not do. Those activities typically fall under the boundaries of SSC (safe, sane, and consensual). I wouldn"t dream of telling my Master no unless I felt the situation was not safe, not sane, or not consensual. I don't necessarily mean my consent but the consent of a third party.
For example there are the age old question asked by those that try and out question you or shake the faith you have in your role and ask what if he ordered you to have sex with a child, animal (bestiality), or a dead person (necrophilia). To me this is an easy question to answer as a child, animal, or the deceased can NOT give consent thus it violates the core foundation of SSC. I have also had the opportunity to field questions, as far out as what if he wanted to amputate or alter part of your body. Again this would fall under the question is it safe? I can't forsee amputating anything as safe so again I would point out it violates the rules of SSC. All illegal activities also fall under this category as well... what if he ordered you to do drugs, rob a bank, steal from a store, or have sex with a stranger? All these activities are not safe and are prohibited in my mind by SSC.
Does this make me less of a slave? Some say yes but I don't believe so; I like to believe it makes me a responsible human with morals that can't be shaken just because I have given myself to another. I always love those submissives who come back with the "then you aren't a real slave because real slaves obey regardless... they aren't given the opportunity to say no". To them I always point out that even hundreds of years ago if a slave thought their life to be in grave danger they in fact would run... why would I be any different if pushed into a place I felt my life was in jeopardy?
Anyway I still do have these guidelines in place and to not acknowledge them would be wrong and make me something I am not. I strongly encourage anyone entering a M/s relationship to be honest with themselves and how far they are willing to go and to find themselves in the same position with their partner before declaring themselves a no limit slave.
I thought since I spent all this time talking about what I wouldn't do I would share my list with you.
1. No Children, no animals, no dead people, no non-consensual 3rd parties.
2. No long term separation from family
3. No separation from religion.
4. Nothing illegal by state or federal law
5. Nothing that would cause the loss or suspension of my nursing license.
6. No permanent physical body damage i.e. amputation, bone breaking, internal bleeding, blood vessel damage, damage that involves loss of mobility or function, scarring, burning of the body, or dramatic loss of circulation, no deep tissue needles and or punctures.
7. No mental or psyhocological abuse.
8. No gun play.
So if these are the things that interest you please don't email me... Not sure I can make it any clearer.
Hope I haven't bored anyone to tears yet. |
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| Age: 27 |
| Winthrop,
Maine |
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