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intelligentkinks

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intelligentkinks - Female Switch, New York New York | BDSM Profile on Collarspace

About intelligentkinks

Unless you are local to NYC, I am only looking for friends. Even then, I want to make a strong connection with someone before meeting or discussing more than friendship. I have a poly family and I will not be monogamous for anyone. If you do not wish to be in a polyamorous relationship, then don't contact me for more than friendship.


If you wish to talk, by all means send me a message, but I will not cyber with you. No exceptions.. Also, if you are going to write me a message, please attempt to make it readable (i.e., with proper spelling and grammar) and say more than one sentence. Thanks :D

I am pansexual and not bisexual but the options are limited on here. I am also genderqueer, but if you really want to know I am biologically female.

I look really good at the end of a leash.
I'm a human pet.
The pet status means I'm owned like a pet, but I retain my human characteristics. Though I am called kitten, I am still a human, though a cute one with kitty-like characteristics. I equate my poly-ness with being an outdoor kitty. I'll have dinner at your house, but I have a life of my own, too.
Since human pets seem to be fairly unknown or misunderstood, I thought i'd write a little bit about myself as I see it.
-Though I will sometimes miaou or purr playfully during play, I talk. Quite a bit, actually.
-I do have a leash and play collar that I very much enjoy, and I tend to crawl while playing (and I very much enjoy being walked).
-SOMETIMES, I will drink out of a bowl. The rest of the time, I eat like a human, thank you very much.
-Being a pet to me is more about the feelings. I love curling up at feet and being petted. I adore jumping into people's laps and being generally treated like a very spoiled house pet. When I am bad, I get disciplined. Think about how you would treat a much beloved kitty, and that is very much how I like to be treated.

Feel free to ask me any questions you have, and I will do my best to answer them.
I've started to consider myself to be genderqueer because I believe the gender binary is harmful and I want to subvert it. But if you are wondering, I have girl parts (though I guess you can see that) and I'm more into destroying harmful gender ideas than fucking with people's perceptions of my gender. Therefore I don't mind if you call me she/her, I just no longer wish to identify as female. Feel free to ask me more about this if you wish.
I am a switch, and I enjoy topping people. I can sometimes be quite submissive as well. I am a pretty even switch, but my true nature is animal-like- I am nearly all id, in the freudian sense. When I am topping I can be a sadist, and when I am submissive I prefer humiliation play to extreme pain play. I am a bit of a naughty brat, though I can be good for the ones I love. I am polyamorous and have a few relationships, both D/s and vanilla, and I am fiercely loyal to my poly partners. I have an amazing girlfriend (and pet), and a few other partners that mean the world to me. Above all, I value intelligence and kindness in my partners.
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