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About InSenseD
In a nutshell, I'm fun, have a dry sense of humour; I'm sometimes the life of the party, other times I prefer to sit on the sidelines with the quiet girl and turn the heat up, as everyone else is (getting) oblivious :-)
I've moved in and out of the scene for a number of years now, depending on what sort of mood / relationship I'm in. I've never found someone who I can really connect with.
There are three things I love -
* Part 1 - I love the moment of surrender, where you finally, willingly, hand over responsibility for yourself. The choosing of the punishment, the acceptance and desire to simply let go for a while. The unconscious conflicting desires of wanting to be disciplined and to give pleasure.
* Part 2 - I'm a tease, through and through. I can lead you through realms of anticipation, desperation, desire, fear, pleasure - and lots of other fun words. My goal is to make *that* connection - where there is no longer the conscious thought, but only the physical and mental sensations coursing through you - causing a complete inability to think coherently - only what your helpless body and mind tell you.
(Sometimes it may tell you that I can be quite exasperating at times :-) )
* The final part is the most important. The connection at the end, the enduring bond. The joy, satisfaction and sense of 'completion' that only an exaustive journey with someone so close can provide. The unspoken intimacy - the "Holy crap that was amazing" that needs no verbalisation - even as I simply hold you in my arms.
(Hmm. I really shouldn't start writing - I get a little carried away)
I work in IT and am studying towards management of said industry.
Drop me a line - I *am* looking for a partner, but am definitely looking for some fun along the way. ( I'm not always so serious! if you read this far without going too much - nice work!)
Oh, and I have a complete addiction to bdsm toys - more the merrier :-) I'm slowly expanding my collection, but I only like high quality - which is expensive! However, nothing beats a light finger running gently down your back, slowly, working it's way down... a little further....
On a final note, I'm honest and reliable. I have never, and will never cheat on my partner - and despise people that do. Honesty and personal integrity are very important to me - and I'm a romantic at heart.
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Hi All, just a quick update- I'm right in the middle of exams at the moment, so no social life for me for another week or two. After that - well, someone's going to feel all the pent up desire :->
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My Ideal Person: The one I'm looking for.. A girl who loves the feeling of leather against her skin. A girl to lay in bed with as we read erotic stories together. A girl that know that even big kids need their toys. A girl who will take with firm grasp and with pride claim her darker side. A girl who will give away her very being to another to find herself in another. A girl that takes pride in her body and appearance. A girl to who will accept many a red flowers as a token of my passions. A girl that knows that Barbie is made from plastic and that real girls are not. A girl who can move from friend and lover to intimate power exchange without diminishing the connection. A girl that knows that love does not need to be soft and gentle all the time. A girl that will find her place in my embrace. A girl with eyes that touch my soul. A girl who will tell me all her secrets that no one else knows. A girl to who knows romance is found in every moment in every day. A girl who can in a single moment knows my every thought. A girl who will let me help her choose her underwear. A girl to adore in a 100 ways in but a single day.
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I did have this in my profile, but it's a little too serious I guess. When I was half asleep one morning, this went through my head.
".....I feel myself becoming more connected to the the scene, separated from the softer emotions that keep me linked to mundane reality. My already rapid breathing becomes ragged, and my focus narrowed to you, only you.....
Only you exist, there is nothing outside - and just as my existence becomes you, so - for the short time we have - does your complete reason for existing become the now. " |
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I just wrote this to a girl about what *really* starts my juices flowing. But I liked it, so will put it up here in case anyone is sufficently bored enough to read it.
".. I've found such a contradiction in myself - I love being able to bring someone pleasure, both physical and mental. However, what really gives me an adredalin hit is when I can do that by going the other path - to cause a bit of fear, apprehension, anxiety of upcoming torture and pain, and to use those feelings to as a wave, for us both to ride the combined peaks of anxiety and pain; desire and lust to create an incredible experience..."
I believe that everyone has a darker side to their personality - but it takes real courage to admit that it exists, and amazing fortitude to explore it and embrace it.
Whilst I am not arrogant enough to speak for others here, I fully believe that for me to be content, I need to satiate both halves. To give incredible pleasure through pain. The darker side of 'recieve through giving.'
Go figure.
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I may have found an outlet here for some of my musings. Beware!
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