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experience sub slave in the lifestyle for 12 years trying cs again after a few years of absence i do not appreciate fakes and expect to verify elsewhere fairly quickly if we happen to click here i consider this lifestyle 90% mental captivate my mind and the rest will come naturally i have served men and women and in group settings although i gravitate naturally toward women i prefer something ongoing to establish the right dynamic so please dont waste my time come say hello and pick my obedient little brain
7/28/2023 7:49:01 AM

her perspective:

You're welcome.

The key to my front door is "Defiant", by brand, and an accurate enough explanation that you know, at a glance, which one you can use to let yourself in. In my defense, Sir, I believe I've been as clear as a person can be in advertisement of such quirks. Per your own words, I have given you plenty of opportunities to walk away from this thing- Shielded from blame even! You're welcome: From a well of generosity, I've simplified things for you on more than one account.

In my life exists no harmony without a measure of calamity and that you're seeing the wartier side of what is often a deceptively smiley face is surely a measure of my affinity for you. So, for all the buttons I've pushed, and will continue to push- You're welcome. You may rest soundly in your assurance that you're dear to me.

On the topic of getting to know one another, Sweet Man, you are a funny creature, indeed. For your submissive, you've chosen an independent, spiny, outspoken and snarky perfectionist and occasionally still feign surprise when I buck. I've been watching your movements since before you referred to us as Beauty and the Beast and it occurred to me that the last man I played trophy for is the last one for whom I would. Sorry to say, Sir- You've stumbled upon this little peach just moments since she ripened past naivete. Any sweetness you detect now has been promised to fermentation, but with patience, she'll give you cause for intoxication, nonetheless.

It's all a part of a clever design Sir, a quality control measure, if you will. That I should put in overtime to test and fortify the bounds of our bond, should make plainly evident my devotion to it. I know I make it look easy, but challenging such a strong and Domly man as yourself, with such dogged persistence, I assure you, is no small feat. For my contributions to the validation of your love, you're most welcome, Sir. I wouldn't think to require compensation for my efforts, but should you be inclined to reward me for these endeavors, a massage would do just fine.

While we've established here my generosity, devotion, and undeniable humility, we haven't yet highlighted a fundamental attribute of the gift of my rebellion: It's aphrodisiacal qualities. Yes, Sir, my noncompliance is an offering bestowed on the altar of your arousal, sanctified when your forceful overtaking of me provokes a solidification between your pockets. So, for each time said noncompliance has elicited force, thereby coercing a hard-on to it's glorious potential- You're welcome. You're welcome. You're welcome.

I live to give, Sir, I really do.

Perhaps, upon reading this, you'll smirk and begin to plan some devilish response to my insubordination. Your ego, no thing of fragility, may yet prompt you to devise some implement of torture or, at least, a scheme for establishing a new occupation for this large and clever mouth. Before you're swept away by a typhoon of retaliatory fantasies, remember, please Sir, what it means to be a keyholder, as you are. The silver one branded Defiant, is a symbol of your assured place in the graces of a woman who serves her submission, with a complimentary side of sass. You're welcome.

7/28/2023 7:46:25 AM

his perspective:

There’s a Little Fight in Her: Loving a sub who exhibits dominant personality characteristics

After some thoughtful study of D/s dynamics, and 26 years of hands-on practice as a Dom, I’ve found myself all lovey-dovey with a woman who submits to me but generally exhibits a dominant personality. Go figure, but she’s pretty darn good at button pushing. In fact, she can be royally disobedient at times. As it turns out, my darling sub’s rebellious nature provides me with the chance to repetitively establish sexual dominance in our dynamic. Her defiance is indeed prompting me to grow and adapt in my style, which I think is wonderful. She has caused me to have a greater appreciation for delivering disciplinary measures than I had in the past, that’s for sure! In my experience, women who exhibit dominant personality traits have always tended to offer me the most enjoyable sexual submission. A sub with a dominant personality type just has more to hand over in terms of “power” which is “exchanged” in a D/s relationship. There’s simply a greater magnitude of power exchange, as I see it, when the gift of submission is offered by a person who usually displays a dominant demeanor. My partner is one such sub. When button pushing and disobedience are added to this type of D/s exchange, the opportunity is created for me to enforce my dominance. Her insubordination gives me the chance to “put her in her place” using deviant sexual and disciplinary acts, time and time again. But why repeatedly establish dominance you may ask? Good question. I’ve come to the opinion that reestablishing control over my sub is like a renewal to our dynamic. It keeps the D/s ect of what we share fresh and exciting. I permit her to win small battles up to a point, but I always win the war. In the end, she takes her place in our dynamic and I take mine. In addition to renewing the dynamic, there’s a special feeling which occurs right at the tipping point when disobedience breaks and full submission ensues. It’s difficult to put into words… but the emotional succulence of this pivotal moment in D/s cannot be overstated. It is juicy, ripe, and dripping with all the neurotransmitters that count. So much energy is wrapped into it that delicious moment when the “power” is being “exchanged”. That moment is when D/s feels most palpable to me. Having a totally compliant partner would eliminate my opportunity to experience this mighty sentiment over and over and over again. With no defiance on my partner’s part, there’s no chance for her to ultimately admit defeat nor any chance for me to ultimately take charge. Don’t get me wrong; I appreciate the value of a no-questions-asked slave who immediately follows orders. The usefulness of a compliant and entirely obedient person in BDSM lifestyle is not lost on me. I’d surely enjoy being the Master of a slave type or three…lol… who’d be used hard in a most filthy, disgusting, degrading, and humiliating way. However, there’s a distinction I make between that Master/slave type dynamic and the D/s partnership I’m in presently. To me, the most satisfaction in partnership comes from someone who pushes back with just enough force to require equal and opposite force. Does this make sense to anyone else? Is it logical for a Dom to crave the “fight” in his submissive partner? It makes total sense to me, but that’s just my opinion. I feel that the fight offered by my defiant sub has proven beneficial to our D/s relationship by offering a much loved dose of exquisite, ground shaking sexual enjoyment for us both.

7/12/2023 6:43:56 AM

i figure a journal entry makes the most sense to add updates considering profile approval edits take forever

 

i am looking for something ongoing with one that is real experienced and local to bergen county nj

i have no interest in relocating at this time

also daddy doms need not apply

i am not that type and my experience leans me more toward a slave or masochist

pics will be provided elsewhere if we happen to click

i am not one to beat around the bush as a slave may only be fulfilled when her talent, mind and of course holes are put to good use at the feet of a worthy dominant

messages leading straight to the point of your expectations of me go the the head of the line and are often answered first

keep in mind this is not my first rodeo so creativity and assertion are well respected

Zaiddybabe
 
 Age: 29
 Pensacola, Florida