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innatedesire

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First let me say that i am tall so you must be comfortable with that!!
i am submissive by nature but by no means a doormat. I am strong and confident in who i am as a person. I am intelligent, charming, witty, kind, compassionate, well educated, happy, emotionally balanced and know who I am. Talk to me not at me.
i am very comfortable in my submissiveness and seeking that ONE special man who can appreciate a good sub. One that understands that communication and growth is essential for a good healthy relationship. He will bring out the best qualities in me as a sub and this in turn will bring out the best in him;Yin and Yang, a perfect balance.
There must be a mutual physical, mental and emotional attraction. The ability to communicate is paramount!!!!!!

I do not like:
1: Long hair
2: Drug use
3: Drunks
4: Drama
5: Those who suffer from chronic cranial rectal inversion.
6: BS, Dishonesty etc...Sad that one even has to state the obvious. If your actions do not match your words then that is an issue!!!

I am 1 on 1, so if your married, have a GF or Poly please move on i am not for you!!

my hard limits are resonable and not a mile long.

I am seeking r/l and have no use for an o/l or casual relationship. If at some point you are not able or willing to meet then do not waste my time or yours.

I have children who are grown (yes I started young and now i am finshed young) and do not want anymore.
I do have many recent photos and have no issues sharing them with those whom I feel have expressed a genuine interest in getting to know me.
I am 6ft, 135lbs, reddish-blonde hair, green eyes, slender build. I take great pride in my appearance and I still manage to turn heads, you will not be disappointed.
Before i surrender my body you must first captivate my mind and touch my soul.........The rest will follow.





2/28/2007 6:06:30 AM
Consistency- This is very important and you can learn a lot about someone this way. When they become inconsistent, change their behaviours and actions they are telling you something, perhaps something they they do not know how bring up, the key is can you see it and have the strength to broach the subject, or are you going to wait and "see" what happens?? Are you proactive or reactive?

Remember actions speak louder than words and they do go hand in hand.
11/26/2006 3:36:26 PM
i am not a switch, nor am i a Domme for all those that neglect to read my profile, and NO i would NOT consider it "just this one time"...............And NO i am not seeking a sub....I do not understand why I get all this mail from male subs *sigh*
11/4/2006 8:24:25 PM
Only through pain will you have beauty. Only through suffering will you find peace.
Can one really grow as a person if one never experiences pain and suffering? (and no this is not purely in the contex of WIITWD) but in life in general.  Look at history..........
10/11/2006 6:24:10 PM
One of my favorite quotes from Stephen King:
" I still believe in the resilience of the human heart and the essential validity of love. I still believe that connections between people can be made, and that the spirits that inhabit us sometimes touch. I still believe that the value recieved far outweighs the price which must be paid."

In life we encounter many people, some touch our lifes others merely pass through..... but how often do we stop to ponder what we have learned from them?
A reason   A season     A lifetime
8/27/2006 7:21:32 PM
I have been on here a week and I can say I have received an overwhelming amount of responses.
First I would like to say that I am very genuine in what I seek; commonality, chemistry and compatability are paramount as it is that which fuels my need and  desire to serve.
There is so much emphasis on sub/slaves that I feel the need to express my view on the subject. I consider myself submissive with a very resonable  list of hard limits. That is not to say with the right man that in time I would not grow to be a slave. For me to achieve that there has to be trust, commuication, and desire within the relationship and that is built over time.
Pleasingone
 
 Age: 20
 Greensboro, North Carolina