i've only been here a few days, but i want to take this time and use this space to ask some questions that make me wonder:
1) why would anyone think they'd draw attention to their profiles by showing pictures of them standing in the underwear, sometimes "seductively" tugged down to almost show what they have?
it makes me think the person is mostly like very young, or at the very least, very immature.
2) why would anyone want to send me a friend request, or be my admirer when they haven't even viewed my profile?
it makes me think they're just trying to "collect friends" in the hopes one of them might help them "express" their inner desires late at night.
3) why would any chat with me over a day or so and then all-of-a-sudden decide the "need" me and then tell me to clear my profile because they have decide they will "place me under consideration"?
it makes me think they're either desperate for affection or simply just "playing" what people call "the collar games", which is kind of like the hunger games, but way more deadly.
4) not that i'm looking for a female dominant, but, why do so many female dominants, or any dominant for that matter, have naked, self-degrading pictures of "themselves" in their profile?
it makes me almost 100% convinced they're fake. a real dominant would never cheapen themselves that way.
5) why do so many "dominants" say they want to lead my life but can't even seem to lead a conversation? instead they ask, "tell me about yourself", "what are you like", "what brings you here", etc.
it makes me think they don't really have the skills to direct a simple conversation and draw out of me, with specific and probing questions, what they think is important to know. if that's true, why would i give it a moment's thought they'd ever be able to direct even one moment of my life.
6) why would someone suggest i wasn't serious about being on collar me simply because i told him that if he was being overly pushy, it was a red flag to me?
it makes me think some people like to press new girls to see if they'll fold.
