"Although we think we are in control,
it is merely an illusion.  It is our desires
that control us, that feed us, & sustain
our existence,  for we are the servants
of that which we have no control over"                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 

"The character of every act depends upon
 the circumstances in which it is done" 
Oliver Wendall Holmes Jr.