I hope it is clear in the following that i'm trying to be respectful.
it has always been obvious to me that collarspace is a site for both "Professional" Dommes who are likely great Woman, its just they want to be paid. and Women who are looking for a more "real" type of relationship who are also likely Great Woman and are the kind of Woman i'd like to meet and or communicate with through collarspace.
I've decided that i'm not currently looking for the "paid Domme" type of scenario, at least not through collarspace.
The following is my "generic" response to unsolicited msgs from Dommes. -----------------------------------------------------------
Hello,
Thank You for contacting me.
i'd enjoy getting to know You and possibly serving You.
But, i'm finding that when I get unsolicited msgs, typically there is an expectation for me to pay for services.
i'm not interested in that kind of scenario.
This does not mean i'm cheap.
if I come to care about You i'd likely spend a lot of money on You. but only when I know You and feel a connection with You.
So, if this isn't about money then i'd really enjoy having some fun with You and learning to obey and be controlled by You if that's where things go. And/or i'd enjoy the simple pleasure of being found worthy enough by You to be able to communicate with You.
Respectfully,
michael |