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I have a dominant personality, but in a good way. I'm not bossy or mean. I like being in control. I enjoy being around women who want the man to be the head of the house. Its old fashioned, but I think both are happy. I believe both are 50/50 but I would make the decision in the end with the good of both in mind. I think domestic discipline (d/d) is more effective than the vanilla style of conflict resolution (silent treatment, yelling, name calling, etc). Those actions break down a relationship. I prefer to take a naughty mate over my knee for a good spanking. A spanking is done out of compassion, and for my mates own good. A discipline spanking will hurt, and maybe even produce tears, but its done to improve behavior, attitude, and to teach a lesson. Its not a beating, and shouldn't cause permanent damage. Afterward all is forgotten, and I feel both bond even stronger. We would have our own sign language. That love tap at a party looks affectionate to others, but you know its a warning or it means "wait till we get home". I'm attracted to this type of relationship, and feel that both are more in tune to each other. There is a desire to be together, and an enhanced mental connection. I think its a very peaceful, and enjoyable relationship. I like the release of control that my mate offers, and her desire for me to "take care" of her. I like the vanilla activites that couples do. Going out to eat, to a movie, traveling, staying home watching TV, or reading, and spending time together. Drop me a line if I sound interesting to you.
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