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First things first: I am real, and approach women as people first, not as fetish-delivery systems. If you are only looking for online kicks and cyber sex, go ahead and start without me.
The focus on this site is, obviously, BDSM, but I have a rich and full life outside of BDSM. My sexuality enhances my life, but doesn't define it.
I am self-employed in a creative field and love my work. I spend all day creating, and being paid well for it, while engaging with fascinating people. I love cultural and artistic stuff -- museums, plays, lectures, book clubs, and travel.
My lifestyle is very athletic. I work out (weights, pilates, yoga) 4-5 times a week at the gym. I tend to travel more by bike than car. I am in many hiking groups, and enjoy stuff like kayaking and ziplining. I have a toned, muscular, slender physique.
It is important for me to make a contribution to the world. I do a lot of volunteer work, mostly with children who had been abused, and it is one of my favorite ways to spend my time. I am proud to provide a role model for children who have had unhealthy relationships with older men. I am kind to those around me. I like to take inventory of how I spent each day and reflect whether I have worked toward my goals.
It seems like have written too long without invoking a cliche, which seems against Internet rules, so I will say I am seeking a "partner of crime." That phrase does clang in my ear though.
I am open to both long-term and occasional, casual, depending on our chemistry. I won't go into a laundry list of kinks (though I enjoy and am open to many, because I think a relationship is dictated by the energy I have with another, not a checklist.
That said, I am happy to discuss all the BDSM stuff with you, since I love discussions. I understand the need for caution. However, I am not one to spend a long, long time emailing back and forth. I am happy to send photos, and exchange enough information so we can see if we wish to meet in a public place to check each other out. I've learn from experience, though, that less is more, and if you keep the exchange online too long you tend to spin your wheels and never meet.
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