Immolation

I am looking to be trained.

I still am relatively inexperienced in the lifestyle, but please be aware that I am not stupid, innocent, or gullible.

I am currently married – we are in an open relationship, especially when it comes to play. If you can’t handle that I’m in a relationship or understand that I won’t be your one and only, please don’t message me.

I am a self-described sub with some switch tendencies.

I like bondage and am very curious about heavy bondage. Posture collars, arm wraps, corsets, extreme shoes - even moving to harnesses and Pony Play. The more leather, the more restrictive, probably the better. Most of my experience is in rope play, cuffs, and collars – but I am keen on experiencing more. I would enjoy being a proud public showpiece encased in buckles and straps for my Dominant.

I like impact play, but it doesn't get me wet of its own accord, only if it’s combined with sensual/sexual contact or mindplay. I really, really, really like long floggings and enjoy the complete no-mind state it brings out in me. Canes excite me in that terrifying/adrenaline sort of way. I’ve had a few canings and really enjoyed the experience, but I do need to be warmed up to get through them. I like mind games but only if I trust the individual(s) involved. I like property work, the idea of auctions and give-aways, and the act of serving, though I'm inexperienced with menial work. I enjoy honorifics or any sort of status/obedience play – it’s good for my head space.

I have boundary issues – and by that I mean I need to be able to feel or find boundaries or I don’t feel safe when I play. Because of this, I can brat; usually if I'm afraid, feel unsafe or insecure. You need to feel comfortable taking control away from me, and comfortable having power in the dynamic. Insecurities with power are guaranteed to produce insecurities in me and potential acting out, if not a ruined play session. I don't aim to or really enjoy being a brat, and ideally, unless the bratting is a stated agreement in a scene (which can be fun), I vastly prefer not acting out.

I can't stress this enough, if you are insecure, you and I will not get along and I will end up bratty and miserable to be so.

In real life, I’m a student working towards getting my Doctor of Veterinary Medicine (DVM). I mention this because it constitutes a massive time commitment, time that I can’t dedicate to other things. It also precludes relocating, though I’m willing to work long distance and schedule weekends away for the right situation. If you want to play with me, please respect my need for homework time. (In fact, homework time could be an interesting obedience session… hmm…)

I'm not saying all of this because I am full of myself, but because of my adherence to truth in advertising - I hope you appreciate direct communication and honesty if you decide to contact me.