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Male Switch, 60, Houston, Texas
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Female Submissive, 23, Tucson, Arizona
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Male Submissive, 39, Penang
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About im4u2domn8
Your attitude, intelligence, creativity, sense of adventure, sense of humour and boldness will put me at Your feet far more quickly than Your whip will. Also, I’m an intelligent man and You will have no power over me unless You can stimulate my mind. Oh and guess what… I’m not looking for sex. I can get that anywhere. I’m not against it should it happen but it’s not what I’m looking for here. So while a pretty lady will certainly turn my head, it’s not enough to drop me to my knees. Still with me? Good. I like that. I like that You’re not turned off by a sub who has standards and who won’t submit to just anyone.
Call me crazy, but I think a BDSM session, even more so than sex, is one of the most intimate kinds of meeting that two (or more) people can have together, where the sub is stripped (literally and figuratively) down to their most vulnerable state and either gives up or has been relieved of all control over what is about to happen during the upcoming session. It’s a total power shift where one person will be under the other’s dominion and at their mercy. Each will draw pleasure from the other in their own way during this experience and both will have learned more about each other’s deepest thoughts and desires than probably anyone else in their lives. It takes a great amount of trust on the part of the sub and care on the part of the Domme to engage in such a relationship and come away from the session with a positive feeling. So forgive me for being a little choosy.
Now, if I won’t submit to just any Domme, it’s because I don’t think I’m just any sub. I’m looking for more than just a whip cracker because I’m more than just a whipping bag. As I said, I’m a pretty smart guy so I’ll pick up whether You are enjoying Yourself or not and try to adjust myself accordingly. What do You want me to be? I’ll be it, and I’ll do it. What do You want to do to me? I have limits of course which we will no doubt discuss before any play happens but I’m adventurous and willing to try many things. I’m built like a football player. That means I can take a beating, should administering one to me be something that you should wish to do. In the end, I’m not one of those subs who has a shopping list of activities he wants done to him. My pleasure in all this will come from sensing Your pleasure and seeing that diabolical smile on Your face, which is what I crave so much. What I’m looking to get out of this is simple. Being at the mercy of a strong, authoritative woman as She exercises Her power over me as She sees fit to express it.
So there You have it. I’m not a push over and won’t be a doormat but I’m hoping to offer You something different. Experienced or just discovering Your dominant side and want to explore it, it doesn’t matter. Nothing will happen before we have had a chance to chat a bit and get to know each other first anyway so let’s just start there and see what happens. The worst that can happen is nothing but you never know, we could end up having some really nice experiences together. |
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I?m thinking of going the ?Pro? route. I don?t think it will be the same though, hiring someone for a service makes me the boss regardless of who?s holding the whip so I might not achieve that full power exchange that I was hoping for but what the hell? maybe there?s a Pro Domme out there who can pull it off. I?ll report any good experiences here. I?ll keep the bad ones to myself though. A BDSM experience is a personal thing so what?s ho-hum to me could be magical to someone else. |
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