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Male Submissive, 57, Davis, Illinois
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About ILMaleDOM
an Online Dom looking for the right slave. i'm Married to a vanilla wife that knows about the lifestyle. looking for a cyber / online slave only.
Being a dominant is not about being bossy – it’s about taking care of your submissives’ needs. This is a relationship – and like any other, both sides have to make their contributions and fulfill their obligations for it to be healthy, sustainable and pleasurable.
When training a submissive I start with ‘exercises’ that not only open the submissive to new experiences, I therefore push the sub slightly beyond her comfort zone.
Above all else, this lifestyle is about the mental arousal associated with activities that are counter to social norms yet somehow feel curiously natural. the mind, to me, is our greatest erogenous zone and where it goes, the body follows.
Customs, rituals and rules are all very important to this lifestyle and to me. Rules& rituals provide a comforting structure for submissives, precluding the necessity to worry over what to do or how to do it. I believe in slaves as property.
Training is a never-ending process. Training is the means by which you, as my slut, get to express your submission to me. Training can happen at any time, public or private.
Training is nothing without discipline. When my rules are not followed – or sometimes simply because it exercises your submission, I may discipline you.
The form of discipline will depend on your personality and can take the form of:
* teasing & denial
* humiliation, degradation, private and/or public
* any form of punishment
as my slave you will have to have those things in order for me to control you online:
1. give me your public Facebook account. don't have one - it's easy to subscribe.
2. have an iPhone with friend finder and more apps I'll tell you to install
3. a webcam
4. willingness to do everything i tell you to do - this is about controlling your daily life.
as my slave you will need to do the following:
1. write a dually journal - your slave journal and report with it to me everyday.
2. have a webcam and a digital camera so you can prove that you are following orders, when chatting with me or when you are on your on following my orders.
3. send on first letter your e-mail address and your im messenger address - you can use both yahoo or msn.
4. willing to push your boundaries and understand that i can control every aspect of your life - from what you wear, when you sleep, what you eat and when you make yourself available for my needs - any need.
you will be teased and tortured.
you will be under my control.
completely.
utterly.
Mine.
5. You must want to do everything I say. This will include many different things. We should be clear from the start - you are inferior and my pleasure is the important thing. If you have limits, you must tell me early on, and I will question you on them, stick to them, but push them when necessary
6. be between the ages of 19 - 40.
7. be committed to being my slave, loyal, obedient, love protocol, rules and daily rituals, love writing and showing yourself to your Owner.
Curious?
Are you curious about how to proceed? Contact me. |
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