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About IllawarraSwitch
Hey there = )
I am fairly new to all of this, but am very curious. I have a fairly dominant personality, so the idea of having to give up control to someone else and become submissive is a real turn on for me...
I have never tried anything in this regard before, not even ass play, so i don't know what my pain threshold is, and would really need to take things slow and need a dom or switch that understands this. I use to have a sub that i messed around with every now and then, and he was perfect for what i wanted in that regard.
While i do enjoy Domme-ing, i have no interest in training or using a sub or slave at this time.
What i want is either a dom who will allow me to explore my sub side, or a switch where we can take turns in both roles equally.
I'm interested in experiencing bare handed spanking, restraints, dirty talk, sensation play, ass play, rough sex and light biting... but as i said, i'm fairly new to the whole idea, as in, haven't even been blindfolded or cuffed... lol
so my interests are sure to increase with time
things i am not interested in, Scat, Lactation, and calling anyone Daddy...
sorry, its just not my thing
= )
**I prefer playing with someone close to my own age, so unless you are within the ages of 25 and 38, thanks but no thank you**
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can't help but notice how many other journals are dedicated to how there are no real sub/slaves/Doms/dommes/masters/mistresses and how the writer has no choice but to leave
I think thats sad. Sure there are alot of annoying posers and less than genuine people, but it is really annoying that these people are ruining the site, especially since i've only just joined ;)
so after being on here a little over a month and experienced some of what these members have to offer,? i have come up with a few friendly little tips for those of you that might be interested in me.
1. Read my profile, turns out i actually put stuff about me on it... who would of thunk it?
2. Instead of sending a message telling me where you you want to stick various toys or body parts, or demanding i do stuff for you, why not try? saying hello instead :)
3. If a profile says they are not looking for a sub, and you are a sub, maybe... and this maybe just be me, maybe they aren't looking for a sub
4. If someone makes it clear to you that they are quite new to the scene and want to take things slow, it generally means you might need to take things slow. So maybe gradually build upt to the hair pulling, nipple tourture and forced oral... Chances are they may freak out if you suddenly spring it on them in the carpark on the first meet.
5. I personally would prefer someone close to my own age, living within a 2 hour radius and who is able to hold a conversation with me and not just after a casual fuck toy. I'm not prudish, or after a 24/7 relationship, just some one who respects me and can 'click' with
so there we go, 5 easy to follow bits of advice if you are ever interested in playing with me? :)
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