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About IiswhatIis
I've always done really bad on multiple choice and T/F quizzes.
I'm not the type of person who fits into a "category" for the simplicity of making
a "keyword search" the best way to find a companion.
Sorry. I'm really not trying to be "snarky" or "cute".
The more I tried to squeeze into the "switch, dom, or slave" question...
the more I felt I needed to "explain" myself,
the more absurd and confusing it appeared!
It seemed as though I was creating more convolutions than clarity.
The vast majority of well intended ladies who have contacted me
just wanted it "simple": >dom<, >sub<, >slave<, or >switch<
Pick one or say "goodbye".
My earnest attempt to be honest and straight forward was actually making it worse.
It made it appear that I was "waffling" or being "deceptive" perhaps.
It made me begin to feel like I should just "pick one" and shut up.
Let the one I meet find out what I mean in time.
DENIED! It just seemed less than straight forward to me.
Sorry- your time and mine are to valuable for games.
Here's the honest to goodness, real, "IiswhatIis" deal:
I'm single and live alone on the edge of a prairie
about 400 yards from Lake Michigan beaches
with my best friend (a gold retriever therapy dog).*
* if you aren't "pet friendly", we are not compatible.
I'm straight but not "homophobic"-
which, in plain terms means: I can support multiples of either gender.
I won't interact physically with men, but if my lover desires two men...
and we are all of a like mind...
my pleasure serving my lover's fantasies is my honor.
Regarding "kink" level-
I'm game for virtually anything and everything
that we both find intensely satisfying.
For more details... it's probably best to meet or at the very least, to chat.
Distance?- is a matter of convenience, accessibility, and most importantly:
the frequency we would like to be with one another.
I would like to find a lover with similar sensual needs:
a woman with a palpable urgency to her love making,
a confident woman who can be everything from
a "passive school girl" who needs "instruction" and "discipline"...
to a "hot bitch in heat"
to a woman who can use me as "her tool" to cum on violently.
Passion is too open ended to fit categories,
in other words: Let the night will determine our roles.
These are some other "incidental character traits" I seek,
as you try to understand me:
a great sense of humor
intelligent
a gentle heart, full of compassion and kindness...
to include a strong positive self awareness and grace.
inventiveness, curiosity, spontaneity, "light-heartedness",
Attractive: > average to thin/athletic <
or > average to voluptuous <
so What does "average" mean?
No BBW's. "average" is "average"... BBW is over weight
(no- the "scale" isn't:
"a stick figure" with bulemia" to.... then....
"a Twiggy".... to "a Barbie".... then skip to "Rosy O'Donnell"..
then maxxed out at "the Stay Puft Marshmallow Woman"
a high libido and a desire to do far more than chit chat or email.
*** Please just think reasonably. Age appropriate weight is fine. ***
The rest.... ?.... you've probably heard more than enough to know that
I'm a healthy red blooded American man.*
* which btw I am (D&D free... though 4/20 friendly)
The rest is all yours.
I hope this wasn't too wishy washy for you to get the message that,
at least in my mind anyway,
a good partner will rise to whatever it takes. |
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