Hey I am a 22 year old, 5' 6" 135lbs athletic, brown hair, blue eyed college student who has always wanted to experiment with others but hasn't ever had an opportunity. Over all most of my sexual exploration has been on my own because I am a reserved in a lot of public situations (unless I am around friends), but I am by no means inexperienced, am open to a wide variety of things, and enjoy the idea of exploring life with others just so long as I am able to maintain my privacy.

Outside of a couple standard sexual relationships with others, I have dabbled in self-bondage since before I even knew what anything vaguely related to sex was (though I have never had a bdsm experience with another person) and have enjoyed self-sissification (again only having been done on my own). Fantasy wise I personally tend towards submissive, however I can be dominating if need be.

I would like to become more familiar with both roles and was thinking that if it all seemed to work for both us then we might able to switch off on roles and build each other's experience and just have fun in general. I am also fine with just being a trained sub, which is really my fantasy anyway.

I would be approaching this more casually as an area of life to explore and have no idea what to expect, also I have a lot of other things I am juggling right now, so while I'm open to seeing where things go, I also want to make sure we are on the same page as far as how much time you are looking to spend together and when. We could meet a couple of times a week for a few hours, maybe even a making a full day and night out of it every now and then, but I probably wouldn't be able to commit any more time than that. Either way I require some flexibility as my schedule is constantly changing.

I will schedule a doctors appointment to get a STD test. My doing this depends on three things, the first being I would like to see recent STD results from you as well, the second being the area where you live so I can know how far I would have to drive (I am by UC), and finally (if any of this interests you) then I would like to skype you and then meet in a public place so we can get to know each other a little better and make sure we both feel comfortable. I figured the skype session is always good since you can actually know who you are talking to and seeing; SKYPE IS NON_NEGOTIABLE if we are thinking of meeting. I totally understand the importance of attraction and will not be offended if I am not someone you are interested in.

Respect, trust, and exploration are important to me, as are giving and receiving pleasure in novel ways. My limits are as follows: No blood, no feces, no piercing of or serious marking of skin, safe words and expressed boundaries must be respected, no other partners or people present unless I consent, condoms and general safe sex practices (especially anal) are necessary though I am fine with most things oral.

I am mobile. 420 friendly, but nothing else.

Have a good one,

Grant