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~ATTENTION~
My profile name is in no way some kind of look into my likes. I just wanted to throw that out there. Its lyrics I like, just wanted to clear that up.
I would LOVE to talk with experianced people who can give me guidance - but please dont message me looking to cyber, Im really not down with that at all.
Im not really looking to throw a lot of information out here, and I really dont want to. My life is complicated, but I've been avoiding relationships for long enough. Im a brat, I like it that way. Im also a very caring person as well. I dont really want someone who cant turn it off, and they definetly have to care about me beyond the bedroom. I definetly do not want to get involved with someone who doesnt want any kind of comittment, thats very important to me.
Im fun to be around, Im a gamer (As in video games), I love goofing around, I have a good sense of humor and I have a very dry sarcastic tone a lot of the time. Hope you have high tolerances there.
Im also out of shape. But its something Im actually actively working on for the first time since 2004.
Im a mom. I have a beautiful daughter who is my life. I spend a lot of time with my family.
I need a MAN who can handle string like family, kids, and my own agenda which currently involves getting myself into school and getting back into shape. My daughter is my world, and I want to be here as long as possible and make her life as comfortable as possible. That is my #1 priority.
If it isnt apparent yet, I am EXTREMELY independant, I am of the mindframe that there is a difference between bedroom and real life, although in previous relationships I have had a history of allowing myself to be controlled outside of it. Not looking for that anymore.
I know that this all must seem like a rant, Im just very candid and honest. I dont want there to be any grey areas if I start talking to someone. Feel free to message me if you want to.
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To those of you who have been mailing me:
I PROMISE I HAVENT FORGOTTEN. My life has been in constant uproar lately and I've barely been logging on much less able to take the time to respond in ways that are deserving of some of the mail I've been getting. I truly apologize for that. I promise I'll be writing back soon! In the meantime, I am reading - Thank you for all the Happy Holiday wishes and such, and I hope everyone had a great week!
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Okay, Im going to go ahead and say this:
Do NOT message me in creepy ways. I will not respond, if I do you will get a "no thank you". So none of this trying to cyber with me crap. Im not here for that, Im sure there are plenty of women out there content to play with you. I am not one of them.
Do NOT message me looking to talk down to me. I am a person, and I owe you nothing. I am in love with someone, and he is the only one I owe anything to. I am not here to conform to the general consensus of "submission" that the site seems to have. I am very vanilla in my day to day activities, and thus will not change my habits for you. Do not expect me to respect you because you clicked "Dominant" in a scroll down box. Respect is earned and given willingly, not demanded.
Do NOT message me if you are married, an internet predator, or looking to "collar" me. I am here to learn, make friend and connections. If you are someone I'd want to talk to, I'll be able to tell from the way you approach me. Trust me when I say "How did you get into BDSM" or "What are your kinks" is not going to get you through any kind of preverbial doors.
Do NOT message me with some creepy line about being black. My profile name is from an Amy Winehouse song, it is not me having jungle fever. (Not that I have issues with black men, but it is not a look into the depths of my soul).
And finanlly, Do NOT message me with some arrogant attitude. I am new to this, Im aware. I enjoy SPEAKING with people about the lifestyle, I like advice, I love sharing stories and getting to know people, I will NOT stand for you demanding ANYTHING of me though. What makes you think you claiming to be dominant gives you the right to demand submission out of any woman? We give ourselves to those we CHOOSE, that is our power. And a bunch of letters will not change my stance on that.
DO Message me if you're looking for conversation, have advice, want to guide a new comer towards finding a comfortable local scene. I know I may seem rude via my profile, but Im a really a sweetheart, Im just jaded by the many creeps on this site.
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