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About iceback
Where to start. Well once upon a time, in a land far, far away........(chuckle). As you can see from my status, i am a widower. Already earned the first brownie point as there is no psycho wife or girlfriend anywhere. I am employed........woohoo....another point. I also have a vehicle........yes ladies, it's the trifecta. My job takes me out of town a lot so there is no way to even smother you or be clingy. I would consider myself a pretty smart, worldly kind of guy and a sense of humour that consists of many one liners if you are quick enough to catch it.
I have my faults but don't we all. I really don't drink. I have nothing against it but i rarely indulge. I am however 420 friendly. Now the rub is that i have a kink or two and a thirst in exploring. I will get back to that........yes, the suspense must be driving you crazy (chuckle). Know what the favorite part of life that I miss? I don't mind the road but to come home to something/someone is the best. Missing that person and then all of a sudden they are there. Now I am not all that conventional in my personal life but yet I am too. . I march to a different drummer and have never been a blind follower. I need to find things out. That has always been me ever since I was a kid. I looked at something, decided I wanted to try and jumped right in and let the chips fall where they may.
So I mentioned kinks. There is something to be said about a "woman in charge". The idea has always held a fascination to me. I think I would like to try that. Imagine if you will relationships back in the 40's, 50's etc. There was a definite head of a relationship. Back then, the husband rules and the wife obeyed. It was expected, known and even on main stream tv and movies that the wife had trips over the husband lap. She was a lady in public but behind bedroom doors, she was expected to fulfill the husbands wished regardless of how kink it may have been. The divorce rate was practically nil and they were long and loving relationships. There was discussion but the final decision was his.All that concept is actually quite right. One of the big reasons for divorce in the past while is first the fact that the women is not happy. It is like she just didn't matter. Another reason is this search for equal partners. There will always be an underlying power struggle. She wants her way, he wants his and the wedge begins. They had it right back then but they had the genders wrong. It should have been the woman taking the head of relationship role and the male takes on the "wife" role. Think 50 shades of grey but in reverse.(blush) They actually would probably do a better job. Women communicate and they do it well. So his thoughts would always be gathered by her. Women instinctively know when a guy needs his behind tanned. That doesn't mean it is done without love. It is just one of those teaching moments. She also just might get a kick out of putting a little colour on her male. It also gives her the control in her bed so she can try everything that makes her grin and that his job is to embrace it and learn to love it.........because she does. Yes, the male is the one who should take the vow to love, honour and obey. I have even been seriously looking into male chastity devices and just ordered one. Now before you write that off as crazy, you should just research the effects it has when the woman holds the key. You just might find you have one very attentive male both in and outside the bedroom. So that is a just a few things running around in this mind. It certainly would be an interesting trip. Women say "Just a simple girl"............with all due respect, no woman's mind is simple to a male. As much as you want us to, we just don't know what you are thinking, what you are feeling, what you are in the mood for. So why not just take the reigns and get in the driver seat. That also being said, don't think that I am spineless either (smile).
At the end of the day, we all want the same thing. We want to be loved. I am all pro having a "vanilla" relationship in public but all that really shifts is you are the head of the relationship with those extended rights. Now the problem is that many of you women think this is a sexual thing. It is much more and much deeper, especially the trust. But imagine a relationship that you are loved, respected, obeyed, desired, listened to. It really is much deeper and probably the model for a really successful relationship.
I will know when there is the right woman for me. She is the one that will message me and demand that key (blush)
Hmmmm and sometimes I wrestle my demons and sometimes we just snuggle.
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