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Hetero Male Submissive, 33,  Victoria B.C, Canada
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Hello Everyone.

Thank You for checking out my profile.
i am here in the hopes of connecting with a Dominant Woman and establishing a Female Led Relationship. This is a very big deal to me. It is the life i want to live and i know it is where i will find true happiness. i would like a life long Partner who will be my Owner and i am Her slave with my life in Her hands. i am also very much open to making new friends. Female, Male, submissive or Dominant. In this lifestyle i think alot of us feel isolated and abit lonely. Having others to open up to i feel helps us in our search and can be reassuring.
Submission is very deep seeded within me and always has been. i can trace it back to being a very young child. In my early teenage years i began to connect the dots from my feelings and urges to the D/s lifestyle. It is not something i happened to stumble across, i was born this way and it is my true calling. my submissive nature is not something i have ever tried to suppress or shy away from but infact i am very proud of it, embrace wholeheartedly and it makes me feel unique and special. i feel i have been given that amazing gift. The gift of submission and i would love to pass it along to a special Lady. i also feel that Her Dominance, Power and Control is a gift She has to give to a lucky boy who earns it.
The type of relationship i hope to establish has a total power exchange with loving Female Authority based on Service with the goal of making Her life as easier, full of pleasure and happiness. It is all about Her. To an outsider it perhaps looks normal, but with a hint of "She wears the pants and hes pussy whipped" a normal lovey dovey couple who are crazy about each other but on the inside She is the one who has complete control over every aspect of the relationship and my life is Hers. i would like to have love, companionship, intimacy and all that good stuff. my ideal friday night is a quiet night at home just being able to be with You at Your feet and i will be as happy as a clam.
i am a healthy man, emotionally and physically. i do not drink at all, smoke anything, and i do not use drugs of any kind, ever. Single with no children. No dietary issues or food allergies. i am a simple man who does not want much. i am jovial and an optimist with a good positive outlook on life although at times i have my moments. i am a lucky that i do not have to worry and stress over finances as they are in order. i am intelligent, i enjoy learning new things and meeting like minded people. i have the ability if needed to lead and for years i have been a leader at work, but it is not in my true nature. People consider me to be a fun guy to be around, as there is a sense of adventure and humour about me and i am thankful that others want to be with me. my interest in fashion is beginning to wane but i do like to dress well as it a representation of myself. i value my time with my family and my friends. i spend alot of time with my family. i do not have alot of friends but the ones who i have are very near and dear to my heart. i am a good communicator and listener and i enjoy deep conversations about current events, athletics, nutirtion, the lifestyle we live and anything else under the sun. i am very happy with my life in general but there remains a massive void, a special Lady who i belong to.
i am abit old fashion as i am a slow mover. Cautious and patient to find the right Partner. i would rather talk on the telephone than text. i am fine with technology but it is not the be all and end all and i do not have or want all the newest and latest gadgets. When i am out with somebody my mobile stays in hidden in Heidi (The name of my car). i believe in chivalry. i love to hold the door for a Lady, place the chair beneath Her as She sits down, assisting Her to put on Her jacket, or wrapping mine around Her if She is cold, walking down the outside of the sidewalk holding the umbrella above Her. i revel in it. With that being said, believing in chivalry, being polite and respectful to others doesn't make You submissive, it means you are a gentleman. i believe the Lady comes first always and forever. i have morals and goals. i have a spine and will stand up for what is right and wrong. i have self worth and i am not a loser, pathetic, worthless, or a wimp. While i am submissive to the core i will not kneel or bow to anyone just willy nilly. Just that special someone.
Some of my strongest traits are
Loyalty and dedication, i am fiercely loyal and dedicated to the people of influence and substance in my life. i will protect and go to great lengths for them.
Honesty and trust. i feel it is paramount in the process of establishing, maintaining a successul and rewarding Power exchange relationship or any kind of relationship or arrangement for that matter.
Realism i am very much a realist, i have a good idea of my strengths and weakness' and i see things for what they are.
Will power, things worth having dont always come easy and it takes fortitude to achieve and overcome.

My personal interests and hobbies include

Fitness and bodybuilding. This is my number one by a country mile. The gym gives me so much. Confidence, health, vitality and decreased stress levels. i enjoy the social aspect, and You can almost feel positivity as You walk through the door because everyone is there for the same reason, to make themselves better than they were yesterday. When i do have my moments of feeling sad or low i take solace in the gym, it picks me up and gets me back on track.

Diet, nutrition and cooking. i am no wizard in the kitchen but i sure enjoy it. i have a good grip on nutrition and i count my food intake daily. It goes hand in hand with my passion for fitness. i bounce between 156 -160 lbs currently and 13 - 15% body fat. i play competitive hockey (i have all my teeth).

Travel. i consider myself to be a pretty lucky boy to see what i have seen and met the people from all over world. Travelling and meeting others makes me have a real sense of appreciation of the country we live in.

Music. Trance is my favourite. Vocal, uplifting, Balearic and progressive. my favourite musicians are ATB, Gareth Emery, Armin VanBuuren and Christina Novelli.

Shopping. i love retail therapy, the interest in fashion isn't gone just yet. Outlet malls on the weekend?
Gardening. Helps me connect with nature and having a long growing season on the west coast means there is always something to be done.
If what i have written pique's Your interest, please feel free to write.

Thank You for Your time.











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 Submissive Male

 Victoria B.C 


 5' 11"

 160 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Transgender

Dominant Female

Dominant Male

Switch Women

Domme/Dom Couples

Mascdom Couples

Friends Only

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 Travel (Expert)

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 Electronica / EDM

 Body Building (Expert)

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 Running (Expert)

 Yoga (Expert)

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 Dancing (Beginner)


 Ultimate Frisbee

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 Female Supremacy (Beginner)



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Journal Entries:
10/4/2013 4:54:09 PM

 I have been receiving many of messages in the last few days, more messages that i am able to keep up with! I appreciate the warm welcome back to the site it means alot. Please be patient with me in waiting for a response. I will do my best to reply to everyone. Life is very hectic at the moment. Love You all xoxo

9/9/2008 8:57:51 PM
 I recently have come home from a wonderful holiday in europe. It is nice to be back and to be able to catch up with friends and the full inbox. It was quite an extensive trip starting in Rome and finishing in Stockholm on a tall ship.

 It was amazing being on the Mediterranean with the moon light shining into my room at night, the sound of the waves and the gentle rock of the ship. Now only if i had a wonderful Mistress to share it with next time ;)

8/25/2008 11:17:17 PM
 Iam back online but not at home. Iam in Tallinn Estonia visiting with a friend. I will be on daily for another week until I go home and I will respond to all emails I recieve. Please be patient as I have alot to reply to as it is already.

8/1/2008 4:25:50 PM
Hi Everyone. I hope summer is treating You well.  I am making this post to let everyone know that I will not be online for a long period of time starting tuesday August 5th. I will have access to internet but will not be on this site. I will be travelling Europe visiting friends. Most of my time will be spent in Rome, Paris, Monaco and St Petersburg. One last quick note. My "friends" iam visiting are not Dominants, so no need to worry about me meeting a Dominant and staying there. :)

6/30/2008 11:33:04 PM
Happy Canada Day Everyone :)

5/26/2008 10:39:14 PM
 As some of You know I have just returned home from the hockey season. I will be spending alot of time with my family and friends in the coming days and I will not be online alot as I have alot of catching up to do :)

 Please Be Patient. I will return all emails.

4/5/2008 11:25:07 PM
 I want to thank everyone for thier well wishes when I was sick. I am feeling alot better and so are my fingers!

3/28/2008 8:14:54 PM
 Just A note to everyone who has been writing. I have been having a pretty shitty week with food poisioning and three broken fingers. So I will not be online much and slow to respond. Please Be Patient

11/8/2007 10:05:28 PM

 I have had 17 Dominants Female and Male write me this week and all but 4 called me a worm, pig, stupid or worthless. This is not something new, unexpected or something that ruffles my feathers one bit. I know there are bad apples and we all get our share of them and thats life.

 So I guess what I am asking and hoping for is that like everyone else to read my entire profile including my journal entries before you write to me. Thats not asking much.

 Most of all I also want to say how much the friends I have made on this wonderful site mean to me! You all know who You are.

11/1/2007 3:13:17 PM

 I will be away for the weekend. My hockey team is on the road for a few days. For those who write, please be patient as I will be sure to get back to You :)


8/27/2007 12:23:11 AM
Hi everyone.

Back online. Please be patient while i get back to everyone. I was not expecting 2 pages of new mail when I got back! I have been away for a few days in seattle and vancouver. I saw the Tiesto show on saturday night in Vancouver. What a night! Raw energy and pure emotions filled the building all night. Just Tiesto and ten thousand joyous friends!

8/25/2007 1:02:08 AM
 I will not be online for a few days, please be patient. I will get back to all the messages asap.

6/29/2007 6:33:21 PM

  Have a wonderful Canada day weekend everyone and stay safe!

5/26/2007 6:35:01 PM

 As You probably have noticed that I have posted new pictures of myself with a beard. It is my playoff beard (Not for the Senators, but my own club i play for)

I figured these would have a better chance at being accepted and posted onto my profile than trying to post others.

 Go Senators!

12/2/2006 8:15:26 PM

 Here it is in early december again, I am thinking I need to start getting ready for christmas.

 So I have decided to go to edmonton on the train for a shopping trip and an Oiler game if I can get my hands on a ticket.

 Iam so excited only 6 more sleeps for this little one!

10/24/2006 10:08:49 PM
 Michael Schumachers driving days are over. Thanks for all the memories good (Spa-Francorshamps 1992) and bad (A1 Ring 2002).

 Iam not a member of the Tifosi, but iam thankful i got to see him race at his best. I think we are all lucky.

 Is he the best driver of all time, better than Prost, Fangio and Senna?

Formula 1 sure will be different without him.

10/3/2006 9:25:11 PM
 Lately my friends have been calling me albert for some reason. You know, from the philadelphia cream cheese commercials.

 Funny That

8/26/2006 12:17:36 AM
hi all

Hope the summer is treating You well!

 Iam posting some new pictures, just waiting for them to be approved.

 For those people who write to me. Please be real.  My ignored list is growing and so is my frustration! bah

2/16/2006 9:36:02 PM
I want to thank everyone who has written to me with such kind words of encouragment, advice and support. It is a nice change from all the losers on here and the hate mail.

2/6/2006 12:45:10 AM
I find it somewhat disheartening that I must add this into my journal. I have been recieving a lot of mail from male supremacisits bashing female dominance and male submission and stating that I am weak. I find it disrespectful and very rude Not only to myself, But to all other male submissives and female dominants. I think we all know that Rudeness is a weak mans imitation of strength. This is no different. What ever happend to treating people the way You want to be treated?

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