IanScott01

""I want to put myself absolutely at your mercy for good or evil without any condition, without any limit to your power." - Leopold von Sacher-Masoch

Vanilla is a Square room…it has corners….places to hide in, and secrets can be found here.

D/S is a round room…no corners, nowhere to hide, everything is exposed.

1. Please don't contact Me if you cannot string a a few words together,
2. Please don't contact Me if your as big as a bus,
3. Please don't contact Me if you have no face picture or some kind of verification that proves you are who you say you are,
4. Please don't contact me before 10 a.m as I am usually hungover,
5. Don't fuck Me about I only deal in reality,
6. Have a nice day, 

I want to be pushed to my knees in front of you. Make me. I want my lips to be bitten. I want to have my head dragged round by my hair. Wrap your fingers in its length and control me. I want to be told I'm beautiful. I want my legs to be forced open. I want to be slapped in the face before you fuck me. I want to be bound and blindfolded. I want to be adored. I want to feel your hand at my throat. Bite me. I want rough sex. I want to fight back. I want you to call me a filthy whore. Wench and bitch is just as good ;o) I want to choke on your cock. I want to be bound and beaten. I want your fingers inside me. I want you to bite my breasts. I want to look up at you, wide-eyed and give you my submission. I want to kiss you and lose myself in it. I want to be fucked in all orifices. I want to curl inside your arms afterwards and know its special. I want to be held down and violated. I want the wax, ice and pain, I want to be respected. I want to be used and raped. I want to be loved. I want someone i can submit to totally and i dont have to fight back every time. I want someone who knows its more than kinky sex. I want somone who can truly dominate me. Who can make my stomach do somersaults and terrify me as well as take me to the heights and depths. That takes someone special so forgive me if im fussy. Is it you?......yes it's Me !!!

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I Don't Like Pain. Please Hurt Me.
I don't like pain. But please give it to me if it excites you to do so. And I don't mean in the ordinary, "Hmm, this is kind of exciting" way. I mean if it gets to you down deep, makes you hard, makes you ready to come, viscerally moves you, emotionally satisfies you.

I don't like bruises. But please give them to me if you look at them and find them beautiful on my body and it excites you to see what we have done together.

I don't like to be "wrecked", make-up smeared, face down in a puddle of my own tears, but please wreck me if it rocks your world to wreck me and build me up again—so we can do it all over again.

Yes, building me up again is part of you creating me. If you don't get that part and get off on that part, too (as in, you prefer to just break your toys and throw them away or don't understand the difference between "hurt" and "harm"), please don't give me pain. I don't like pain.

If giving me pain doesn't move you, isn't a part of how you fuck and love, but you are just doing it because you think it will please me—please don't. I don't like pain.
If you see my littleness and love me fiercely and would protect me from the world if you could, yet you still, unapologetically, need and want and get off on making me hurt and cry for your pleasure—then please, please make me cry and hurt.
I don't like pain. But if hurting me sends you, please hurt me. I love to be your pleasure

It's not like vanilla, this.. a Dominant man and submissive woman understand exactly what they seek - she desires to please him and in so doing finds a sense of peace and belonging, he, recognises her need and provides her that world within which she can explore and feel safe.. he knows her, all of her, and he requires to know more, he constantly evolves - she fuels him... the control of him, as he guides her wherever he is.. his hand in the small of her back, steering her wherever he wishes her to walk, her adoration as she knows that she is his, and only his.. the look, as he watches her walk, her glance back, to make sure she is never far from his direction. It's not easily understood by most...

The natural submissive. Also called true submissive. This type of individual seems to have been born submissive. It goes beyond the sexual aspects of the BDSM and is a normal part of their makeup. It is their nature to please others and readily relinquish their personal power with little or no urging from their dominant.

The amount of sub/slaves on here nowadays who have no idea of the lifestyle and to what that really means is staggering.

Don't Judge My Journey, Until You've Walked My Path

The true man wants two things: danger and play. For that reason he wants woman, as the most dangerous plaything. (Friedrich Nietzsche)