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ianplanner

I am a well educated (Oxford degree), financially secure Brit based in Philadelphia,

I am now in a loving relationship with a delightful and very pretty submissive.

Since trust is central to any successful BDSM relationship (just as in the vanilla world) I'm not looking for anything else.

I'm experienced, serious-minded (though with a strong sense of humor) and committed.

Photo was best I could find right now.

If anyone still wants to write for general good fellowship - a good question to be able to answer is what book are you reading - right now.
12/3/2006 1:52:49 AM
"So here I am. In the middle way - the years of entre les deux guerres." Well that's how it feels at 5.00 am on a Sunday. Writing these entries seems like a chore - but I have to do them every now and then - if only as evidence of life. I've met a few good women via this site - even spoken to one or two - you know who you are and let's keep talking. At some point will this get real? And when it does, will it please God not be tedious?
9/8/2006 11:02:52 AM
Another death. Anatoly this time. Another overdose. God the bodies keep piling up.

I'm writing this in church - just had to take a rest from the website work.

I look at the profiles and read what is written and I do not klnow whether to laugh or cry. Are we all so sad? This includes me.

One day I need to tour the male Dom profiles. I read what the female subs write and....

Guys don't you get it? You women too?

If sending out phony or absurd messages is all you can do then .....

Well.

Enough ranting.

There's got to be someone who is genuine.
7/9/2006 6:22:03 AM
Back in the saddle again as I suit up for church!!!

Then a day of air conditioning and ancient history.

Have to reach out to a friend who's brother just died of an overdose. Known her ten years, half Brit half Pole, great in bed and as crazy as a bedbug. Need to get her to friends of Bill meeting (the initiated will know what I mean).

Read a great profile of some goth woman in Bradford, England. Thank god there still is humor and natural grace around these days. This old fart (me) needs to sign off right now.
7/4/2006 5:43:06 PM
July 4 it's too hot and it's my first day on this site.

It's a good looking site, easy to navigate, visually literate and appealing (uses Verdena as default font).

I can think of worse places to be.

And the people on the site seem a bit better than I expected.

More depth.
janetbaby01
 
 Age: 24
 United Kingdom