| |
|
|
Home |
|
|
|
|
Browse |
|
|
|
|
|
Live |
|
|
|
|
Join |
|
Collarspace |
|
|
|
|
Dating |
|
|
|
|
News |
|
|
|
|
Glossary |
|
|
|
|
Mobile |
|
|
|
|
Alt |
|
|
|
|
Safety |
|
|
|
|
Toys |
|
|
|
|
Live BDSM |
|
|
|
|
Resources |
|
|
|
|
Welcome |
|
| |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Login |
|
|
 |
|
 |
|
|
|
|
Male Dominant, 50, West Hollywood, California
|
Male Dominant, 37, Boston, Massachusetts
|
Female Switch, 26, Chicago, Illinois
| | |
|
| Back |
| KPM |
| Directory |
| Interests |
|
|
|
| |
|
| |
| |
|
|
|
|
|
| |
About iamnotasub
I want to feel your hand on my throat as you explore my body with your other hand, telling me what a slut I am for liking it.
I am not a sub. This is just a kink that I can't satisfy in my vanilla relationship.
I have to be able to trust you so want to get to know you first. You should be intelligent and attractive and able accommodate in pleasant surroundings. And of course discretion is essential.
Despite the nature of my desire I wish to be approached politely. So please start your message with, 'My dear lady'.
P.S. I'm black but couldn't find a more suitable image. |
|
|
|
|
Thank you to all the gentlemen who have written friendly, personalised, literate messages to me which demonstrate that they have read my profile. I really appreciate your politeness. It is taking a while to reply as 'new meat syndrome', as one correspondent so colorfully put it, is out in force. I will reply as soon as I can but it will take a little time due to the volume of messages. Please refrain from writing to me a second time before I have replied to your first message as it will only exacerbate the problem. |
| |
| |
|
|
Someone asked what I meant by pleasant surroundings. I mean indoors in your nice house or apartment as I cannot accommodate. |
| |
| |
|
|
I can understand from the picture and my first line that some respondents assume I want to be throttled. Not so, the hand around the throat is holding tight but not squeezing on my windpipe. I'm not into breath play or indeed into anything extreme. It's more about being (temporarily) controlled within agreed boundaries. |
| |
| |
|
|
I've received a couple of messages objecting to the phrase I have asked respondents to use. The reason for the phrase is so that I know that you have read my profile, nothing more. If you object to it, best not to write to me as I do not respond to insults, provocation or aggression. |
| |
| |
|
|
| |
|
Male Dominant, 36
|
Male Submissive, 45, Tulsa, Oklahoma
|
Male Submissive, 36, Bucks County, Pennsylvania
|
Male Dominant, 68, Menomonee Falls, Wisconsin
| | |
Male Dominant, 49, NW Chi Burbs, Illinois
|
Female Submissive, 34
|
Male Dominant, 38, Denton, Texas
|
Male Switch, 50, SanJuanCap, California
| | |
Male Dominant, 41, St. Louis, Missouri
|
Male Submissive, 62, Olympia, Washington
|
Female Submissive, 52
|
Male Submissive, 43, Brooklyn, New York
| | |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
