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Ntrancer
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I like talking to people, I'm hard work, as everything below this sentence will probably attest to, but perhaps things worth winning are not easily won.
I used to have a little list here of all the things I don't like (from txt spk to cheating) but truthfully it doesn't really seem like anyone actually pays that much attention. I can be a bit of a bitch at times, but hell, even us little subbies have that in us too :P.
If you message me having blatantly ignored my profile I'm very unlikely to respond.
Let's get on with the details.
By the way: Hi :) I'm Naomi. Nice to meet you. :)
Here is a little about me (in a listy adjectivey way):
I'm bubbly, loud, complicated, contradictory, blunt, open, honest, intense, inquisitive, depressive, occasionally shy, bitchy, stubborn, competitive, loving, sarcastic and probably a bit odd. I become more and more myself every day and closer to being happy with it. I am vegetarian and loosely pagan. It'd be good to have shared interests, but I do also enjoy a good debate, so as long as you are opinionated (but open) and passionate then it's all good.
From other people:
I want intellegince, fire, desire, want, passion, hunger, love, tenderness, care, fight, intensity, honesty, openess. I want the spark and the click and the want. I want to be a princess and be loved and protected, but also respected for who I am. I want to respect the person I'm with, not because they force me to, but because of who they are. I want them to inspire me, to push me, not obviously or deliberately (although deliberate can be fine too) but just because knowing them makes me want to exceed. I know that's a lot to ask, and really you can't predict a lot of that sort of stuff, so initially, what I look for is someone who intrigues me, someone who interests me and makes me want to know more.
I like talking to people, like getting to know people, and I'm happy to talk to anyone as long as they can hold a decent conversation ;)
That said, I am looking, and what I'm looking for has parameters. I'd prefer someone around my age (the rough age guide is around 26-36), I've never really been interested in much older men, and I doubt I'm likely to start now.
I didn't used to have much about bdsm stuff here, but I think I'm becoming more sure of what I like (and don't like) and it really is kind of sensible to have a little information about it up here. So, my limits are consent related (i.e. kids, animals, I'm not talking consensual non-consent here that's another kettle of fish which I'm quite happy to boil) and mess/ickiness related (skat, watersports, ashtray, ass play, anal). Also, fairly sure that humilation is not for me, I'm fine about sexual related verbal stuff (you drity whore etc) but being told I'm an ugly useless bitch is not going to get me going. Simialrly degredation and treating me less than human isn't something that does it for me (no cleaning the toilet with my tongue etc).
In terms of what I like, I guess I like it rough, I like bondage, I like fighting and struggling and physical stuff. I'm cheeky and irreverent and also like having a heated debate with someone and am not one to just roll over. I like percieved threat, and while I don't think pain inherently turns me on I'm interested in exploring it mixed with pleasure, though I am stubborn and competitive so will take pain. I think I'm slightly sadistic and quite enjoy inflicting pain. I love biting and scratching (both ways) and like I say, I enjoy the fight and the struggle. I didn't used to like to put all this up here as where's the mystery, but now it's kind of like I want what I want! I'm relatively rubbish at making decisions, and at times quite think I'd like someone to do so for me, but I'm also pretty independent so I'm not sure how that'd work!
Feel free to contact me if you want to know more. :)
I'm quite interested in going out on dates. As well as having interesting conversations.
I'll stop for now as I really have written quite a lot!
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Ah yes... I definitely forgot one of my message pet hates in one of my earlier rants.
I wont reply if...
...you send me a message that starts with 'ur' i.e. ur sexy, ur beautiful, ur opinionated..
ok... I *might* reply to one that says "'ur' is a ridiculous shortening of you're, I hate text speak..."
In fact, I will probably want to slap you around the head, especially if combined with sending me a message in text speak, your profile is also filled with the same... seriously... COME ON.. you have a full keyboard in front of you (I presume) pleeeeaaassssseee use it. When writing a profile take 2 extra minutes and use full words. It is seriously not that hard, and will fool people into thinking you have 2 braincells to rub together. (welll probably not, but at least it wont burn their eyes when they read it) |
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I can't believe I haven't mentioned anywhere in my profile my inherent problem with questions. In that, I seem almost pathologically incapable of answering open questions (my mind goes blank and I can't think of anything) but a nice multiple choice question and I'll expand on the answer exponentially.
I on the other hand can ask a lot of questions if I'm interested, and have been called the naomi inquisition. Heh.
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I never thought I was someone who wanted life decisions made for me, but I actually think I do. Maybe this is a reaction to having no idea what I'm doing right now, maybe not, but the thought of someone making my decisions right now is really quite appealing.
It's got to the point where apparently my brother-in-law told my sister that she should just make my decisions for me, since I seem unable to do so!
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So here I am, back in England, having escaped the perils of dangerous Animals and enormous bug-life.
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Well I'm an idiot apparently. Also, noone actually reads my profile, or at least ignores it after they read it. If there are any honest people in the world... well I don't know.
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I'm pretty rude, there's all sorts of messages I don't respond to any more, I used to, often with polite 'thank you but no thank you' but now I just don't.
Here's a few tips if you want me (and probably others) to respond
Don't send me a copy and paste e-mail. Seriously, I can tell, and it's pointless, you've made no effort, so I'll not bother replying.
Read my profile, if you're sending me a message and I've specifically said I'm not interested in you in my profile, why are you bothering?
Say something about my profile, about me, tell me why you've messaged me, if it's simply a numbers game for you and you figure the more you message the more likely it is someone will respond, no, not gonna happen.
Say something about yourself, but not too much, get me interested, but don't spout out the same old thing (see previous point about sending out a copy and paste e-mail).
One line messages, no, never gonna happen, again, no time spent, why should I bother?
Don't be a fucking cliche. "Are you a good girl?" seriously, go find some porn and have a wank.
Have a brain cell or two, and use them, if you're messaging me to tell me I'm so wrong for not wanting to be with a man twice my age, why are you bothering? Do you think I'm going to magically change my mind? No.
Why message me to insult me? What possible result do you think that will get?
There is more, but I'll stop for now.
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Currently in Adelaide after having travelled around some of Australia, now trying to get work (ha!) and make friends while I'm here. Looking to do a bit more travelling (if I do manage to get a job ever) round Australia, then I'll be heading home to sunny (!) England around August time.
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Not really looking at the moment as am going away for a while, if
something/someone amazing comes along I guess I wont say no, but since
in 3 months I'll be gone for 3 months it doesn't seem the right time to
start anything up.
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Searching is a tiresome thing.
I think there are different types of searching, searching when you know exactly what you want but it isn't something you'd find on every single corner, and searching for something, you're not sure what it is but you know that something is missing, maybe you even know what it *isn't*, but can't put your finger on what it *is*. I'm discounting searching for your keys/socks/clean underwear/frizbee. :P
The search continues.
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Just in case it isn't clear, I'm happy to talk to anyone, and although I may come across a bit harsh I'm really not that bad :)
I'm new to this, but I'm not stupid and am not going to put myself in danger... least not until I trust someone ;)
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| Age: 24 |
| Fort lauderdale,
Florida |
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