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I am looking for a very specific arrangement, and a very specific type of person to enter into that arrangement with.

I am a married, 34 year old woman, graduate educated, and relatively conventionally attractive (if you appreciate the thickness). By all accounts, I should be happy and successful - but I am not.

The specific arrangement that I am looking for is someone who is interested in telling me what to do to get my shit together - from a distance and in a way that will support my relationship rather than dismantle it. I know there are people out there who get off on micromanaging, but wouldnt want to deal with having any of my messy life intersect with theirs and that is exactly who I am looking for.

I seek an online only, non-romantic, life management relationship.

About the sex stuff - there is a lot going on there so I will keep it brief for this profile. I tend to lose my sex drive in long term relationships, and one of my personal goals is to get back in touch with my sexuality in order to be a better partner. That means that I am happy to be directed to do sexual things that service that goal. If you happen to get off on any aspect of our arrangement then that is my humble pleasure... I recognize that I ask a lot here. My relationship with my partner is not a domsub relationship. I have found I prefer that kind of relationship to have some distance to it... but I also find that my ability to be turned on is also related to being ified (something I do not want to experience so much with my partner).

I will send some photos once we establish report and to demonstrate I am who I say I am, but regularly sending images or videos will not be something I will want to participate in, at least not for quite some time. For reference Long brown hair, blue eyes, pretty face with full lips, thick body with wide hips and strong thighs. I am active and do some lifting (I used to lift a lot and getting back to it is a personal goal). So if you like a thick girl but also the idea of pushing her to get into even sexier shape....

I am particularly interested in people who are extremely intelligent, controlling and hypersexual with unusual interests, I am less interesting in the ultra-sadistic or just demanding doms.

If you arent anyone to look up to, you are of no interest to me.

If any of this sounds interesting to you, please send me a message and we can see if this is a fit.

If you are someone who is happy with a Trump presidency then we would not get along.
howardjanet97
 
 Age: 22
  California