Husker98

Melbourne-based 35-year-old submissive male (beginner/novice), 5'8 and 90kg, seeking an experienced, confident Dominant man for an ongoing, private BDSM dynamic. I’m looking for someone reliable to meet at least once a month for regular power exchange and play. My availability is somewhat flexible.

I’m into chastity cages, choking/breath play, sissy play, role play, and begging. I also enjoy gags, blindfolds, restraints, and light to moderate use of my own sex toys. I’m especially interested in progressing toward being used as a pain sub. I offer myself as a blank canvas to be used and moulded — I’m obedient, eager to please, and willing to learn, but as a novice I will need patience, guidance, and training from the right Dominant.

I can travel to meet but cannot host. Safe sex practices are required at all times. Not interested in online-only play, but happy to chat online and get to know each other first.

I prefer Dominant men who are roughly 20 years older than me (preferably 55).

Hard Limits:

• No videos


• Photos only if my face is not visible or is covered


• No scat


• No blood or knives


• No bodily fluids


• No heavy CBT (light only if at all)


• Nothing gross or overly humiliating

I believe in safe, sane, and consensual play with clear communication, safe words, and proper aftercare. Happy to discuss boundaries and expectations in detail before we meet.