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Hummingbird900

Female Submissive, 23, London
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About Hummingbird900


I am searching for someone who can help keep my thinking straight, keep me focused, remind me daily if who and what I am. I have strayed very far away from where I need to be mentally. I need someone that would be willing to help me live the life I should be living even though I am with a vanilla man. Help make me treat him like I should, respect him, serve him, etc.
I am searching for someone who would take some control of me. I have a very deep need to suffer. I need someone who can make my life miserable for me, take comforts and luxuries away from me, cause me pain and aching, orgasm denial, etc.

I am in a committed vanilla relationship. I am not available for more than online.


COVID is kicking my ass. I don't think I have ever felt this sick before. 

I am long overdue and in great need of a spanking.
Submissives are commonly viewed as falling upon a spectrum. At one end is one who submits very little or only in scene-delimited context; at the other, one who submits as a constant in a lifestyle context and is very controlled, and everyone else falls somewhere in between. A big error occurs, I believe, when people assume that a slave is simply another point on that spectrum, a more extreme form of submissive than is found in the ordinary range of submission. I think this is to fundamentally misunderstand the internal dynamics of slavery. A slave is not an ueber-sub, someone "more" submissive than the "ordinary" submissive. For that matter, a slave may not even be submissive at all. Slavery is not about submission or submissive behaviors. It is about obedience.
Some of You old timers here may remember my old profile (on Collarme) I was Udderlymoo for many years. It was all about the room, you know that spare bedroom down the hall, the one nobody ever goes in so it's not really paid any attention to. The room that nobody has a clue is actually a stall for Your hucow. She's locked in there, in her own little world of milking and breeding, use and abuse. I got to live that life, in that room for some time and lately I find myself longing to go back there. Longing for the security of those four walls and the care of that Owner. I think back on it with many smiles.
I am healing....slowly but surely. I'm rediscovering myself....my true self. I'm starting over...the right way. It feels good.
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